Virginia Ironside
Virginia Ironside is an agony aunt, columnist and author. She writes the weekly Dilemmas column for The Independent.
On Google+
On Twitter
Top writers
Places
Politics
The Independent
i Newspaper
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Keeping Mum
29 July 2013 12:33 PM
This reader is worried to hear her four-year-old refer to his father's new girlfriend as "mum". Should she raise the issue with her son? Or just keep quiet?
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: My teenage son is using ketamine and cocaine
22 July 2013 04:00 PM
A friend has suggested we kick him out onto the streets, but we can't bear it
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: My 67-year-old father is besotted with a 25-year-old woman
15 July 2013 01:12 PM
My brother and I looked her up on the internet and found she’s been in prison
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: He refuses to learn to play the piano
08 July 2013 04:27 PM
This reader can't find a way to get her son interested in learning a musical instrument
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Weighty Matters
01 July 2013 04:41 PM
This reader has kept herself trim while her husband has steadily put on weight. Is there a tactful way to persuade the man she loves to loose a few pounds?
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: How can I get him to see the doctor?
24 June 2013 01:05 PM
He's in pain, but when his wife suggests getting professional advice, he refuses to go
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Unhappy inheritance
10 June 2013 03:45 PM
Ten years ago her parents left her a small flat in their will. Now her partner says it's time to redecorate and sell up - but she just can't bring herself to do it.
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: I want to have sex again
05 June 2013 05:51 PM
This reader would like to initiate sex after five years of a celibate marriage - but what will her husband think? And will it upset the delicate balance of their relationship?
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: My adult daughter refuses to talk to me
05 June 2013 05:36 PM
The reader's adult daughter calls her a lousy mother. Should she cut her out the will?
Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Rental shame
21 May 2013 05:04 PM
This reader's daughter is sub-letting a council flat for her own profit. Should he go behind her back and tell the council?
- 1 Is the Muslim call to prayer really such a menace?
- 2 Channel 4 to 'provoke' viewers who associate Islam with terrorism with live call to prayer during Ramadan
- 3 US army doctor returns arm to Vietnamese soldier fifty years after he took it as a souvenir
- 4 Police seize possessions of rough sleepers in crackdown on homelessness
- 5 Demand for food banks has nothing to do with benefits squeeze, says Work minister Lord Freud
How will you make today delicious?
Tell us how you plan to make today delicious and you could win a £50 M&S gift card.
Win a three-night weekend break for two in Stockholm
Hesperus Press are offering the chance to win a three-night weekend away for two to Stockholm.
Summer food reader survey
Take our grocery shopping survey for your chance to win a £100 M&S store gift card.
See Norway’s spectacular coastline
There is no finer way to discover and explore the dramatic Norwegian coastline than aboard an authentic Hurtigruten cruise.
Where's Wallonia?
War and peace: history revisited in the cities of Southern Belgium - a travel guide in association with the Belgian Tourist Office.
Win first-class inter-rail passes
Win first-class rail passes to explore the sights and sounds of Europe with redspottedhanky.com.
Celebrate the joy of reading with NOOK®
You can buy a NOOK Simple Touch Glowlight at £69, or the NOOK HD 8GB Tablet for just £99 - until 3 September.
Enter the latest Independent competitions
Win anything from gadgets to five-star holidays on our competitions and offers page.
Business videos from commercial thought leaders
Watch the best in the business world give their insights into the world of business.
Day In a Page
Special report: How my father's face turned up in Robert Capa's lost suitcase
The unmade speech: An alternative draft of history
Funny business: Meet the women running comedy
DJ Taylor: Who stole the people's own culture?
Guest List: IoS Literary Editor suggests some books for your summer holiday
Rupert Cornwell: What if Edward Snowden had stayed to fight his corner?
Comedian Tig Notaro: 'Hello. I have cancer'
Bill Granger's Asia-influenced egg recipes
