Virginia Ironside

Virginia Ironside is an agony aunt, columnist and author. She writes the weekly Dilemmas column for The Independent.

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Virginia Ironside's Dilemma: Girls guide?

This week a mother worries whether her daughter, who's just left home for university, will be imitating those misguided young ladies in HBO series Girls

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: To divorce or not to divorce?

This reader says the marriage that produced two children is irrefutably over, but she's too scared of the future to ask for a divorce

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Too young for the Women's Institute?

Our reader seeks company while her husband works away from home, but women see her as a threat and men are only after one thing

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: love letters from beyond the grave

Should this reader keep her promise to her dying father, and destroy all his love letters? Or get them published and make some money?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Busy body

A busy, new friend keeps cancelling their arrangements. Is she trying to tell this reader something? Or is our reader just feeling insecure?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Safe or sorry?

This reader admonished another manager's staff member when they failed to follow proper fire safety procedure. The other manager sent an irate email to complain. Who's in the wrong?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Babysitter blues

By offering free childcare, is this reader being a good sister or just interfering in her sibling's rocky marriage?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: My elderly mum is driving me mad

A reader's 90-year-old mother rings day and night and visits everyday. Is she selfish to want some time to herself?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: Cult car crisis

This reader's cousin gives the money meant for car insurance to her guru instead. Should he report her behind her back? Or let her drive uninsured?

Virginia Ironside's Dilemmas: The perils of playing peacemaker

A well-meaning friend finds herself in the precarious role of peacemaker. It's a wobbly tightrope, says Virginia, and there's no easy way down.

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