More women suffering from stress problems
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Women are increasingly suffering from severe forms of stress and experts say more than ever are on the edge of a nervous breakdown
Women's mental health is deteriorating as increasing numbers seek help from psychiatrists, new figures show. The burdens of keeping a job, raising children and looking after elderly parents are driving more than ever before to the edge of a nervous breakdown, experts say.
The number of women referred to NHS specialist psychiatric services is rising faster than among men. Women accounted for more than half (56 per cent) of the 1.2 million referrals for outpatient and inpatient treatment last year, and the gap between the sexes is widening. The total needing specialist psychiatric help was up 3.4 per cent on the previous year but women accounted for 70 per cent of this growth in demand, shows a report from the NHS Information Centre.
In January, a survey of psychiatric services published by the NHS Information Centre showed a rise of more than 12 per cent in the proportion of women suffering depression and anxiety since the mid-1990s. There was no increase in mental problems among men.
Experts said the growing number of elderly parents living into their 80s and 90s was adding to the caring responsibilities of women, already juggling demands of work and children, leading some to struggle under the extra pressure. With job losses and cuts in income looming in the recession, demands were likely to grow disproportionately on women who carry the main caring role, they said.
Paul Farmer, the chief executive of Mind, the mental health charity, said: "One statistical report is easy to dismiss but when you get two pieces of evidence telling you the same thing it looks like something is going on. Undoubtedly, there is a combination of factors affecting women which mean they face greater challenges, maintaining work-life balance and caring responsibilities. Where there is increasing pressure at work and at home, it is often women who are expected to bear the brunt."
Women accounted for at least 60 per cent of callers to the Mind information line, offering help and advice to people with mental problems, he added. It is known that women are better at acknowledging difficulties and coming forward to seek help for them.
Simon Lawton-Smith, the head of policy at the Mental Health Foundation, said the charity was considering how to respond to the emerging trend. "I think this [the deteriorating mental health of women] is worth looking at. The biggest increase in mental problems was among women in mid-life aged 45 to 64. Perhaps it is time to think about this group and where the problems are and what support we can provide."
A 2003 report by the charity Women at the Crossroads showed how many women in mid-life found themselves in a poverty trap, as a result of lower pay, part-time working and divorce. They were less likely to own their home, had lower status at work and carried a greater share of household duties.
Mr Lawton-Smith said: "The biggest change has been in caring responsibilities. We now have our parents living into their 80s and 90s being looked after by women in their 40s and 50s. Budgets for the statutory services are tight; the policy is to keep elderly people at home so the pressures of caring are increasing. It is evident that there is extra pressure on women in this age group."
Marjorie Wallace, the chief executive of the mental health charity Sane, said: "It is no surprise there is an increasing number of women accessing mental health services. Almost two-thirds of calls to our helpline are women, many of whom are in their 30s or 40s, for whom their most productive years have become their most anxious years. Many may be struggling under the increasing burdens placed upon them as breadwinners, as well as being carers for their children and ageing parents."
Research for the NHS Information Centre, by the National Centre for Social Research and the University of Leicester, and published last January, found 21.5 per cent of women aged 16 to 64 suffered from a common mental disorder such as depression and anxiety during 2007, compared with 19.1 per cent in 1993, a 12.5 per cent increase. The problem was most serious among those aged 45 to 64, where the proportion affected increased by a fifth.
Neta Hollings, the programme manager for mental health at the NHS Information Centre, said: "Women may be better at recognising problems and seeking help. Or it may be something in our lives, but we don't know what it is."
'Without support, I would have had a breakdown'
*Rebekah Khan, 39, from Cambridgeshire, was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder in 2007, after previously being treated for a personality disorder. She is now receiving treatment from a specialist psychiatrist after developing panic attacks.
"My ex-partner was a ward manager in a hospital, and he recognised that all the ups and downs I'd had put me in danger of having a breakdown. I was pregnant with my third child, a little girl, at the time I was diagnosed, and he agreed to take responsibility for my two sons so I could concentrate on looking after my life and hers. If I hadn't had that support I probably would have had a breakdown immediately.
"But women are still the ones who carry the burden of a family. They are also the ones who have felt the effects of the financial crisis most keenly, because they have so much pressure on them: they have to be the Delia Smith of the house, looking after the children but also having a career.
"You don't have the support system that you used to. The more independence you have, the less support you have. I used to be a career woman, but now it's a job just to look after myself and my little daughter."
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In the past women solely looked after the family but now are materialist society dictates they look after the family AND go to work while the man goes to work, comes home, put's up an occasional shelf, then sits down watching SKY Sports with his mates with a can of beer and thinks nothing of it.
Is this progress ?
I suspect it's the female of the species that keeps the world ticking over and they as usual carry the burden.
Not that all men are like that at all.
Waiting in great anticipation for your considered reply :-)
Perhaps women should have campaigned for more help with housework.
But, let's not generalise. In this day and age it's silly to presume a role for oneself based on ones gender, we've come along way from that. In the past men used to worship women as idols and goddesses, after that they only saw them as baby makers, now we've moved on from both of those into a time where we are all striving for individuality based on the qualities we posses, not what chromosomes we were born with. As such we all must work towards something, not just sink into a caveman perspective where women do the hoovering and men earn the dough. Too old school.
Why would evolution bother with male and female of men and women were exactly the same and equal? Eh? Females are programmed to get impregnated by the best mane they can get and would have been pregnant most of their lives until recently - they are therefore designed to be risk-averse and middling and to be natural carers; men have evolved to excel, to lead, to hunt, to fight, to strive and struggle for status - as that will enable them to father more offsrping.
If you don;t get that you are even thicker than you look. Biology does not change - except in long periods of evolution. Not in 1000 years and 30 generations. There is no 'old school'. Males and female tend to be very different. There are of course exceptions but in general men excel and women are middling, and men soldier on through stress whereas women burst into tears. Sociology is a fake science. Look at REAL science - empirical science. Notg your silly orthodox PC opinions. They are not backed up by scientific fact. Still, no change there then from you... with your low IQ...like most women who are midddling as you are...
Now stop reading all that silliness by Greer and grow up. Stop being such a moaning minnie too - women love being martyrs dont; they. And you assume men do nothing - well, last time I looked lazy women were being useless mums dumping their kids in childcare. Sad.
It is mostly women who divorce men, thereby hurting their sons. So yes, it is women's fault - because they use men and steal their money after divorce. Mums are no heros - most are rubbish and most child abuse and murder is done by mums.
Women are more prone to lacking confidence and depression and anxiety - and also will ask for help more. 70% of visits to doctors and by women and women's health gets 7 times more money than men's despite men's getting ill more (imagine of it were the other way round!!!). Having counselling is a fashion - and women must keep up with their friends - and read nonsense cod-psychology and eqtch soaps and Jeremy Kyle and want to be part of all that too. Sad.
Actually, we need resources wasted on a lot of timewasting women to be used to create a non-sexist health service that treats men equally and accepts that healthcare has to go to men and not the other way round. Working class men suffer a lot, as do young men and boys brought up by sungle mothers in a feminised manhating society and school system.
Men work their tits off and suffer massive stress (one reason why they die younger on average) but they don;t moan and whinge and complain.
How dare anyone say women have it tougher! The opposite is true. Most men cannot live lives of ease doing little parttime teaching jobs and living a nice life paid for by hubby! Or a big fat divorce settlement for doing nothing. If men are dependent they lose all status of course.
Also, although men get more ill and die younger, 80% of those taking earlier retirement through sickness (and getting compo) are women. The weaker sex? Seems so. Men just soldier on. That is biological not social.
Sorry, but I have no sympathy with neurotic self-obsessed women who waste public tiem and money. They need to keep busy - do some housework perhaps, get a fulltime job, to take their silly minds off themselves. Put yourselves together girls. Men do.
If people are really ill, fine. But this is all just spoilt women moaning - I used to work with lots oif em, and as a man who was standing on my own two feet, I had no sympathy with the moaning minnie part-time women I worked with, who lived off their husband's or eshusbands money, in a nice house, and with lots of time and also maternity benefits galore and a health and education system geared towards them.
You've written the wrong article Jeremy Lawrance - you should be exposing how men are massivley discriminated against in healthcare and why women are prone to depression because of innat brain biology. Maybe next time eh.
Try finding the right one next time!
Care to try and argue against what I have said? Seen the facts and figures.
The fact you cannot accept biological fact just shows you to be a flatearther unable to accept scientific fact. Biology, Darwin, history and observation are on my side - who is on yours? Germane Greer and Dworkin.
This is a sexist attitude and article. Women have it easier than men but cannot cope with stress as well despite having less in their lives. That is the clear conclusion. And surely, you do not seriously think that women have it harder? READ SOME HISTORY. Of war, for example.
And men deserve equality in healthcare - so need to take money from women's health and spend it in men's. Or do you not support THAT equality sister? Now go away and only come back when you can attempt to counter my lucid and valid fact-based articles. Look at some MRI scans perhaps.
More stress for women? NO WAY. More stress for men, but men just cope and get on with it. Women just have a lesser ability to cope with stress and less confidence too, which comes from evolution. I am always amazed how dependent on others' support women are. Men and women are not the same or equal.
And please stick to the facts and stop being so overemotional. Have a littke cry if you want, but at least attempt to put forward some arguments. Or are you just spiteful wickle girlie of the week (Sara-nonsense may have lost her crown!!!)
You are an excellent example of this type of person who has dreadful problems but does not ask for help.
I am neither pre-menstrual or menopausal, I cannot be driven by your spite to go for a little weep, all I feel is deep concern for the increasing and impotent rage that I see developing through your sequence of posts.
I urge you to seek medical help now before your rages become uncontrollable - it may be that there is an underlying physical/medical cause for the venom you spew, not just a psychylogical problem, but it is hard to believe that anyone can be 'well', who is gripped by such spite and anger as you are. Whatever it is that is making you write as you do, you give me the impression of someone who is unsafe with themself, let alone with women, surely needs to be dealt with by a professional.
My argumnet is NOT based on emotions but biological facts. The figures are there - look at the stats. And you want to emotionalise it like a typical naval-gazing girlie obsessed by her own feelings. Post a reply making valid points or sod off mad woman.
I find those that implore others to seek psychological help or counselling usually have psychological issues themselves so think everyone else should be as weak and damaged as they are. Would you tell William Wilberforce to seek counselling because of his views? Or Charles Darwin? Is someone being angry at lies a sign of their psychological problems? Logic ain't your strong point is it love... As many overemotional damaged women.
Go hang yourself love. Or go back to the mental ward.
I never 'accepted' the way things were for me when my son was younger and my parents were still alive, but efforts (many, various and sustained) to bring about changes for the better for myself, my son and my parents largely failed, and in the meantime I just had to get on with it, i.e. I think it'd be more accurate to talk in terms of women 'resigning' themselves to things, because it's either that or people who need looking after don't get looked after.
The work of looking after people who need looking after still 'doesn't count'. The only thing which throws switches in most heads most of the time is who is 'earning a living' and how ("And what do you do?"), and who isn't.
I don't 'accept' the way things are for me now, but trying to bring about changes in the way I feel (physically now too, as well as mentally/emotionally), and in the way I am perceived/related to by others, e.g. prospective employers who are not interested to look further than the gaps in my 'employment history', is... proving very, very difficult!
The word depression is banded about and used as an illness. Take a hard nose look at whether you are plainly 'justifiably angry'. (Then enjoy the anger)
Notice how the artical adds up all the so-called BAD BITS. Hey I'm 80yrs old and certainly object to be seen as a BAD BIT. In fact daughters and grandchildren see me very "positive"; positive meaning cash and lifts to school.
I once coined the term "enjoy your burnout", and it worked; staff team thought first and then we all enjoyed ourselves. Laughter yes.
Attempt to stay in 'The Here & Now', I say attempt.
Ask what is 'personality disorder is, or panic attacks. And so on. An honest person will have difficulty with an answer.
There are ill people, but again be very careful not to get caught up with "long term" treatment.
But what is the alternative?
We must step back from the "have it all" craving mentality that now dominates our way of life. Is it our purpose to consume products and experiences?
Developing compassion and helping others is what leads to happiness, self-serving behaviour ultimately only leads to suffering.
Women are such attention seeking and love being martyrs, promoting the lie at their pity parties that men have it easier and the grass in greener blah blah blah - none of which is based on fact just their self-pitying opinion.
Most of those claiming compensation for early retirement are women, though men get ill more, and women use state services way more than men. So yes, to be fair they should pay more tax if the car insurance model is followed. Men dies younger than women partly because they have more stress to put up with actually and the health service is designed for women who seek help whenever an eyelash falls out, not men who are despised by women is they ever ask for help or show weakness. The health servise must be equalised and serve men and not just women.
True equality would mean equality is all things, not just the cherry-picking equality that feminists support.
The trouble is if someone cannot prove they have a medical reason for taking it easy, life does not allow stressed individuals to put their feet up and recharge their batteries. A few days away, a long, pleasant bath, a long walk will do a great deal more than medicine can.
Another solution is to detach yourself from whoever is screaming at you, abusing and exploiting you and to feel as if someone else is bearing the brunt of being torn apart by the conflicting demands of bosses, kids and parents. They are not screaming at you but at a projection of you, so you do not have to take the pressure personally. If you see the unpleasant things as happening to one of the many personas modern life imposes on women, exploitation simply does not hurt so much and you are able to keep your cool along with that old fashioned term: a stiff upper lip.
The other way through this is to enjoy the fact that you are run ragged. After all, you are the fortunate ones who are actually creating the world in your daily lives instead of being a troll in a solitary room somewhere pouring invective into the media because you have no real role in the world.
Seeing the inevitable suffering of having to rush around like a many armed goddess as the price you have to pay for being alive, active and influential, helps you get through being treated like dirt by insensitive bosses and sub gaga parents.
In the modern world, women have that innate instinct but want the man to have feminine characteristics. You simply can't have it both ways. It's against the instinctive nature of both male and female. Stress, well everbody suffers from that. There might be less of it, if the gender divide understood their differences, as well as similarities.
As to posting 'go hang yourself' on an article about mental health ... how responsible and grown-up !!
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