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E Jane Dickson: Men need to get over their notions of the 'gentler sex'

Friday, 1 August 2008

It's not the equality we dreamed of for our daughters. The flintiest feminist heart will scarcely be cheered by this week's news that the number of women arrested for violent crime – traditionally considered the "preserve" of young males – has more than doubled in eight years.

Annual figures released by the Ministry of Justice show that, for the first time, "violence against the person", which encompasses everything from "happy-slapping" to knife attacks and homicide, has overtaken shoplifting as the most common offence committed by women in the UK. In girls between the ages of 10 and 17, violent crime has risen by 25 per cent in just three years.

It's a shocking statistic. Somewhat less shocking is the scandalised reaction of the Right, which to a man – and it is almost always a man – deplores the rise in "ladette" culture' (generally characterised as "sexual equality gone mad") for all the world as if packing a knife along with the lipstick in your Saturday-night handbag were the natural consequence of female suffrage. It matters little that violent crime committed by women remains hugely less significant, both in incidence and severity, than violent crime committed by men; the idea of the "gentler sex" lashing out remains culturally explosive.

We like to think that gender relations have come on a bit since Shakespeare's time, but Katharine's capitulation in The Taming of The Shrew ("Why are our bodies soft, and weak, and smooth?... But that our soft conditions and our hearts/Should well agree with our external parts...") still gets a big "hello" in the 21st-century press. There is, after all, little to hold readers' interest in a double-page spread of young, drunk men making dangerous fools of themselves. Young girls falling out of their tops while they pee in the gutter and smash each other's faces is altogether more interesting.

It is, of course, easier to focus on a small subset of crime figures, to wonder "what's the matter with women these days?" and pass the metaphorical port, than it is to address the nature and causes of violent crime in toto. Crime statistics – and the reporting thereof – are notoriously slippery, with a treacherous gap between the number of offences and the number of "successful" arrests. There is considerable political pressure on police to improve their clean-up rate on violent crime ( with a published quota for 2007-08 of some 1.2 million offences). It may be sexist, but is it wholly implausible to suggest that it is less of a strain on man-power to fill up the cells with plastered girls on a Big Night Out Gone Wrong than it is to wade into the middle of a full pitch gang battle? This is not entirely a criticism. Were I the mother of said plastered girl, I'd be a whole lot happier to see her brought home in a squad car – but it's a consideration.

Because the answer to "what has happened to Britain's women?" seems staringly obvious. Drink has happened to women. Alcohol in unprecedented quantity and availability. Women are drinking more and they're drinking younger. It's not exactly a revelation that women are generally less able to "hold their drink" than men, but a recent comparative study of male/female endocrinology carried out in the US suggests that while an immoderate intake of alcohol effectively lowers the level of testosterone (the hormone associated with aggressive behaviour) in men, an equivalent amount of alcohol doubles testosterone levels in women.

Clearly there are other factors at play (not least the constant assertion of "status" which underpins gang structure for both sexes), but it scarcely seems sufficient for the Conservative think-tank Civitas to add female aggression to the cultural pile-up laid at the door of "family breakdown". And it is at best ill-timed for David Cameron to call for children to be introduced, early, to alcohol in the home (because when he was in his teens, none of his acquaintance suffered from the odd glass of sherry).

Maybe one day Cameron and his ilk will tumble to the fact that their insanely privileged experience is neither useful nor universal. In the meantime a more systemic, less judgemental and frankly less excited approach to the question of why young women are knocking 10 bells out each other is required (and if the link between alcohol and female violence is even half way proved, it seems like a handy place to start).

Aggression, as we never tire of telling our children, is not the answer. It is almost certainly a response.

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"It may be sexist, but is it wholly implausible to suggest that it is less of a strain on man-power to fill up the cells with plastered girls on a Big Night Out Gone Wrong than it is to wade into the middle of a full pitch gang battle?"

Learn how to read Duncan - Dickson IS saying girls should no be locked up in celles as boys are and even admits it';s sexist. Don't balme mean for your lack of literacy skills, duncey.

Kenneth - your being a father proves nothing at all (except that you had sex once - well done). I am reminded of the facts: most abuse of children is done by parents... Interesting that... Never mind, your daughters could be lesbians - and if they saw how rich i am, they'd be all over me I'm sure (like most girls). YOU are the silly little man and the idea i would actually care what an old fool like you thinks is risible. You support sexist hypocrisy if you want.

Also, maybe I am a father too, dumbo!

Posted by Bargepole | 03.08.08, 11:15 GMT

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Bargepole, the truth is that, as a father, I wouldn't want my daughters to touch you or a man like Ivan with a bargepole, and I can't think of any father who would.

You are an offensive little man.

Posted by Kenneth W | 03.08.08, 10:46 GMT

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Bargepole wrote "Typical hypocrite feminist EJDickson - arguing that sexism should be used to treat women more leniently in the law and that female drunken thugs should not be kept overnight in the cells!!!! Typical feminist hypocrisy"

Except that she doesn't say any of that anywhere in the article if you actually read it.

She says crime by women is still a minority of crime (which is true) and that the big rise in crime by women is probably due to more of them drinking too much too often (also probably true).

Posted by Duncan McFarlane | 03.08.08, 00:16 GMT

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Wow, Ivan!

That is some pretty unreconstructed chauvanism you have going on there.

Glad YOURS is the minority view (sorry couldn't resist that!).

Get a grip on reality man. You're living in the 21st century.

Posted by Ian G | 02.08.08, 18:16 GMT

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No, you're still quoting lunatics ranting nonsense as if they're stating actual facts Ivan - Pat Robertson also claims in your quote from him that feminism makes women 'kill their children' and ' practise witchcraft' - yet you claim he's stating facts. That's enough to show you're totally out of touch with the reality of mainstream (as opposed to extreme) feminism, which is about equality for women, not reversing the direction of inequality. Most feminists never become lesbians either by the way - though lesbianism is not a sin, as you seem to think it is.

Once again you quote some feminists who believe women should be lesbians as if that proves all feminists believe this - most of them don't. It's like quoting the 'Real IRA' and claiming all Irish Republicans, all Catholics or all Christians believe in terrorism. Total nonsense.

You're also still capitalising half your words as if it proves anything. HERE let me SHOW YOU that it DOESN'T. SEE?

Posted by Duncan McFarlane | 02.08.08, 16:00 GMT

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@Coffee Pidgeon
"I hope nobody explains to Ivan about the Y chromosome and how it makes men more vulnerable from birth to pretty much every mental and physical genetic disorder"

"Women are TEN TIMES more likely to develop some psychiatric conditions such as PANIC ATTACKS and ANXIETY DISORDERS."

Source: news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/1653687.stm

Posted by Ivan | 01.08.08, 20:46 GMT

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I hope nobody explains to Ivan about the Y chromosome and how it makes men more vulnerable from birth to pretty much every mental and physical genetic disorder.

I think all Ivan wants is for somebody to tell him "You are SO right, dear! I totally see what you mean!" and pat him on the head.

So yes, Ivan - you are SO right. Men *are* better than women - better at suffering from sometimes crippling genetic disorders!

Posted by Coffee Pidgeon | 01.08.08, 20:04 GMT

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"The nuclear family must be destroyed... Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process." -- Linda Gordon, PROF. OF HISTORY, NY University

"I feel that 'man-hating' is an honourable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing them." -- Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor.

"I haven't the faintest notion what possible revolutionary role white hetero-sexual men could fulfill, since they are the very embodiment of reactionary-vested-interest-power. But then, I have great difficulty examining what men in general could possibly do about all this. In addition to doing the sh1twork that women have been doing for generations, possibly not exist? No, I really don't mean that. Yes, I really do." -- Robin Morgan

"We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage." -- Robin Morgan

Posted by Ivan | 01.08.08, 19:30 GMT

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@Duncan McFarlane
"Your quoting of Pat Robertson suggests your views are extremist and irrational on this subject"

Your CHEAP attempt to discredit me on account of just one quote just goes to show how shallow You are.
I am not familiar with everything Pat Robertson has said and done, but I've chosen to quote him on feminism because that quote of him NEATLY SUMMS UP WHAT FEMINISM IS ALL ABOUT.
AND THEN I'VE CONFIRMED THAT STATEMENT FROM HIM, WITH A QUOTE FROM N.O.W., the most prominent FEMINIST organisation:

‘The simple fact is that every woman must be willing to be identified as a lesbian to be fully feminist.’
— National NOW Times, Jan.1988 (National Organisation for Women)

"Feminism encourages women to leave their husbands, kill their children, practice witchcraft, destroy capitalism and become lesbians."
(Rev. Pat Robertson, 1992 Republican Convention)

CLEARLY, PAT ISN'T LYING. It's plain to see.

Posted by Ivan | 01.08.08, 19:25 GMT

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Feminism in the UK has destroyed family values, messed up our children, made women behave like the worst of men, emasculated men in the workplace and made this country a horrible place to live in. British women are the fattest, most drunken, most promiscuous, most diseased, most arrogant, rude, vulgar and undereduacted in Europe - as well as the worst cooks, the worst mothers and generally the worst wives and partners. My advice: don't touch 'em with a bargepole! I have never seen women publically drunk in any mainland European country or behave like Brit women - I would recommend men look elsewhere for female company.

Typical hypocrite feminist EJDickson - arguing that sexism should be used to treat women more leniently in the law and that female drunken thugs should not be kept overnight in the cells!!!! Typical feminist hypocrisy - but then, feminism IS hypocrisy, and feminists want to pick and chose when they do or don't want equality. Same old double-standards.

Posted by Bargepole | 01.08.08, 19:18 GMT

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