Shaun Bailey: Inventing role models misses the point

Published independently but commissioned by the Government, the Reach report came out last week. It focuses on the problems faced by some young black boys, and is a welcome piece of research. Among its findings are that black youngsters need a new generation of role models, drawn from the legal profession, business and education, if they are to overcome poor educational attainment and more general underachievement and avoid becoming involved in criminal activity. It proposes to set up a structured national role model programme for black boys.

The problem with this idea is that role models are based on respect, and neither the Government nor anybody else can decide or dictate who young people will respect.

While some people have the force of personality implicitly to command respect, what I have found in my work in north Kensington in London is that role models tend to be local people, "landmarks" in a small community, rather than more remote figures. The idea of setting up a national register for role models, which is what is proposed, may not be workable. Indeed, it smacks slightly of white conscience-salving, and could end up being more use to the people organising it than the young people it is meant to help.

This view has become something of a mantra for me, but what we need in the black community is everyday success, the kind that most young people are routinely exposed to at home. That applies not solely for children, but for adults too. A sense of success, of achievement, is infectious. If more parents get to feel this, it would change what all black people believe is possible, and would be communicated on to their children.

Most of my time is spent working with teenagers and adolescents from inner-city estates, trying to get them off drugs and into something rewarding and fulfilling. One of the things I say to the parents I deal with is, "The best thing for your kids is for you to be in employment." By normalising success, they can demonstrate to their children that living a life of welfare dependency need not be all they can expect.

This is not to say that there is no place for role models from outside a community. There is, but their success would only be limited. The over-emphasis on this one aspect of the problem reminds me of the Government's failure in another area – dealing with poverty. It has misunderstood the problem, and failed to see that poverty is not just about a lack of money. It is also about a lack of hope, of belief in the possibility of social mobility. Showing awareness of poverty and making noises about it is not enough. What the Government has missed is that when you give people help without asking them to take responsibility for themselves, you are taking away something crucial: the right and need to be involved in their own redemption. Handouts are one thing, but a sense of personal responsibility must go with them if the solution is to be sustainable.

To escape poverty, black boys and men must look not only at the help they will be given but also at what's needed in return. You cannot hand success to people on a plate. Without earning it, the word is meaningless.

The Reach report says a lot about education, and everyone agrees that education is vital. But anybody who knows about it will tell you that it starts in the home. A work ethic cannot be given to a child from any external force if isn't started and reinforced within the family. Children's brains are like sponges, so whatever they get up to and are exposed to at home, whether it's MTV excess, computer game overload, books or parents who don't care about education, this will have a big bearing on any push by the Government to elevate standards.

In our keenness to raise standards of education, we seem to have become obsessed with league tables. But they tell us nothing about how well-rounded the products of a school are, or about the ethos of the school or the distance moved by their pupils. Often the need to do well in league tables forces a school to remove pupils who are difficult, instead of finding a solution to their behaviour. This particularly affects black boys, who are often misunderstood, but that is not to say that such boys don't need discipline as much as anyone if they are to succeed in school and beyond.

I am also in favour of stronger relationships between parents and schools. Often parents are an untapped resource, and we should use them – after all, they are the people who have the biggest impact on their children's education. In the black community, many parents feel their right to parent has been removed by new laws protecting children's rights. They say we tell children a lot about their rights and not enough about their responsibilities. This is why I worry about a Government that's not asking people to take charge of their children. It gives out the message that it can all be done through schemes and projects.

If I was to be cynical I would ask why they have waited so long to address this problem. Is it because they want to be seen to be doing something, now that young people's extreme actions are all over the newspapers? For me they have done nothing to address the other side of the equation: the negative input our children receive from things such as computer games, TV, magazines, films and music.

What my experience, and this report, has highlighted for me is that young people are in need of moral guidance. But we live in a climate where any use of the word "morals" brings people out in a rash. We treat our children as if everything is inevitable – underage sex, drugs and rebellion to the point of self-destruction. What we should be telling them is that these things are wrong. We should not be trying to make these things safe for them to do, but to prevent them from doing them. This has become an unfashionable view, but it's no less true for that.

The problems that affect our young people go way deeper than just providing positive role models, although this could be a helpful step. We need to relearn what the parental and family role should be, and not rely on an ever-growing state that has shown it cannot answer the problems affecting many families. If you know children who are doing well, I bet you see parents who are involved with them, set a good example and take a leading role in their lives.

I would hate it to be thought that these are problems facing the black community exclusively. They are rife in the white community, too. If you think I'm wrong, take a look at the rates of sexually transmitted infection among teenagers, or our growing teenage prison population, or the number of children leaving school unable to read. These things are a problem for us all, black or white.

Shaun Bailey is prospective Conservative parliamentary candidate for Hammersmith. He works for the Blenheim Community Drugs Project and is director of MyGeneration

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