Around this time of the year, my mum, Jena, a devout Shia Muslim, who died last year, would ask to be taken to see the Christmas lights in town, and when dropped off back home would entreat in Kutchi, our home language: "Say something nice in your newspaper article, time for that. It's their Christmas. Don't make people upset. This is a good country for us, you know."
I can hear her mellow voice today, and do as she bid. For in many ways, she is right. This is a good country for us and we Muslims don't say that often enough. Mea culpa.
Even now, in the riven world, our lives here are more secure, treated as more precious, than they are in most Muslim and European countries, the US, Australia and the Far East. British Muslims, or at least the most vocal of them, have never acknowledged the fact that "infidels" Christians, atheists, Jews, secularists, Hindus and Sikhs campaign ceaselessly to guard our fundamental rights as citizens of this nation.
These allies may recoil from Muslim militancy and the perpetually dissatisfied British Muslims who demand accommodation of their cultural practices, some of which are abhorrent in a free society. Yet they go all out to defend us when the state threatens to take away our freedoms or invoke undemocratic measures to protect democracy.
When the Home Secretary, Jacqui Smith, plans to increase from 28 days to 42, the time suspects can be held without charge, the right-wing Tory David Davis comes out fighting as if for his life. Why should a powerful white man care to oppose something brought in to intimidate and quell Muslims? But he does.
Henry Porter, the journalist, white and powerful, has been even more committed and uncompromising. Liberty, under Shami Chakrabarti (most definitely not a Muslim), has given unprecedented time and resources to interrogate skilfully and disable the tyrannical anti-terrorism measures dreamt up by New Labour since 9/11.
A 23-year-old British Muslim saleswoman, Samina Malik, was convicted last month under some of these draconian laws after downloading some jihadi material and for writing miserable and murderous poems fantasising about beheadings. I find what she did repellent, but hers were thought crimes, which should not lead to prosecutions in any democracy worth the name.
English PEN rose to condemn Malik's conviction, and among the most eloquent of the writers to come out for her was Hari Kunzru (again, not a Muslim) who wrote: " ... rationality seems to be ebbing away. We seem to have accepted the principle that it should be illegal to think, read and write certain things ... We are being taught to be circumspect. How long before it's suggested we should shut up altogether?" Malik might just escape her inner demons if she allows herself to read humanist writers like Kunzru.
Martin Amis's xenophobic "adumbrations" and imaginings were met with fierce moral and intellectual ripostes from white men, such as the novelist Ronan Bennet, Peter Wilby, the former editor of The New Statesman, and Professor Terry Eagleton. And also the Indian writer and critic, Pankaj Mishra (no, not a Muslim). When there are attacks on Muslims on the streets they are supported by grassroots organisations set up to defend all victims of racially aggravated crimes.
The same empathy is evident when looking at foreign affairs. Lindsey German of the Stop the War Coalition has never stopped reminding the nation of the mayhem in Iraq; Robert Fisk, the most highly regarded journalist in, and on, the Middle East, is not, I don't think, a closet Musselman. A few weeks back, at a conference, we heard the lawyer Phil Shiner reminding us of the alleged torture of Iraqi prisoners by British soldiers. For years now, he has tried to get justice for them, as has Rabinder Singh QC.
I am not suggesting Muslims have not been as effective and involved in these struggles. They have, and some have proved themselves impressive battlers, in particular, lawyers and politicians. However, there is too little public recognition of the non-Muslim individuals and lobbyists who have taken up our cause and stood with us. Decency demands we give them thanks.
That wouldn't suit or please separatists like Hizb-ut-Tahrir et al, for whom there is only them and us, the West and Islam, forever clashing on the road to hell. Sadly, the most integrated Muslims at times seem to have persuaded themselves that they are hated by the rest of humanity and their faith is under siege.
Such a view is only possible if you close down, shut the doors, turn off the sounds and blank out the sights that tell you a different story that even these worst of times bring out the best in the best of us. For such big mercies, I am truly grateful. Mum always was, and she was right.Reuse content