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The father of the pilot of missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 last saw his son just days ago, at the funeral of another of his sons.
Captain Iriyanto’s brother died of diabetes, their father Suwarto told the BBC, saying the second tragedy to hit the family was in the hands of god.
“I want my son to come back alive and well but if that’s not meant to be, if god doesn’t want that, it’s in the hands of fate,” he added.
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Show all 28 1 /28In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian rescue personnel unload body bags from a military helicopter in Pangkalan Bun containing bodies recovered from the underwater wreckage of ill-fated AirAsia flight QZ8501
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian rescue personnel unload body bags from a military helicopter in Pangkalan Bun containing bodies recovered from the underwater wreckage of ill-fated AirAsia flight QZ8501
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian national search and rescue agency's (BASARNAS) members prepare the lifting bags for recovery of the fuselage of crashed AirAsia flight QZ8501 at Panglima Utar Kumai Harbour in Kumai, Central Borneo
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 A member of Indonesia's search and rescue team walks past wreckage of AirAsia flight QZ8501 recovered at sea and stored in a warehouse for investigators in Kumai, Central Kalimantan on Borneo island
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Members of the National Search and Rescue Agency carry coffins containing bodies of the victims aboard AirAsia Flight 8501 to transfer to Surabaya at the airport in Pangkalan Bun
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian search and rescue personnel pull wreckage of AirAsia flight QZ8501 onto the Crest Onyx ship at sea
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 An Indonesian diver and an official examine the wreckage from AirAsia flight QZ8501 after it was lifted into the Crest Onyx ship at sea
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian rescue personnels carry a wrecked seat of the AirAsia Flight QZ8501 airliner recovered from the crash site at Kumai port in Pangkalan Bun, Central Borneo
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 After nearly a week of searching for the victims, rescue teams have so far recovered 30 bodies
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian Air Force personnel during a search operation for the victims of the crashed AirAsia plane over the Java Sea, 1 January 2015
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian officers carry coffins with the remains of passengers of the AirAsia flight QZ8501
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 A coffin of a victim of AirAsia flight QZ8501 is transferred from a local hospital in Pangkalan Bun, the town with the nearest airstrip to the crash site of AirAsia flight QZ8501, in Central Kalimantan
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian national search and rescue agency (BASARNAS) members and Indonesian Air Force crew carry a dead body from a helicopter, during search and rescue operations for the crashed AirAsia plane, at Iskandar Military Airport, in Pangkalan Bun, Central Borneo, Indonesia
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 A vigil for victims of the AirAsia flight QZ8501 crash in Surabaya, Indonesia
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Members of the Indonesia marines unload their diving equipment
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Indonesian people pray for passengers of the missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 in Malang, East Java
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Messages for passengers on board the missing AirAsia flight 8501 are placed on a board at Changi International Airport in Singapore
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Commander of Indonesian Air Force 1st Operational Command Rear Marshall Dwi Putranto, center, shows the airplane parts and a suitcase found floating on the water near the site where AirAsia Flight 8501 disappeared, during a press conference at the airbase in Pangkalan Bun, Central Borneo, Indonesia
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Captain Irianto's (the pilot of AirAsia QZ8501 flight) relatives and his wife Widiya Sukati (3rd L) Putri gather in his house at Sidoarjo in Surabaya, Indonesia
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Family members of passengers onboard missing Malaysian air carrier AirAsia flight QZ8501 pray together while waiting for a briefing inside the crisis-centre set up at Juanda International Airport in Surabaya
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 An Indonesian Navy airman prays on his plane before searching the waters near Bangka Island for debris from AirAsia Flight QZ8501
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Family members of passengers onboard the missing Malaysian air carrier AirAsia flight QZ8501 react after watching news reports showing an unidentified body floating in the Java sea, inside the crisis-centre set up at Juanda International Airport in Surabaya
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 An unidentified object, found during a search and rescue operation by the Indonesian Air Force for the missing AirAsia plane, is seen floating in the ocean off the coast of Pangkalan Bun, Borneo, Indonesia
In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Authorities monitor progress in the search for AirAsia Flight QZ8501 in the Mission Control Center inside the National Search and Rescue Agency in Jakarta
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Relatives hold a picture of the Herumanto Tanus family as they wait for news from the missing AirAsia plane
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 A relative looks to a list of passengers of Air Asia missing plane at Juanda Airport, Surabaya, Indonesia
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Relatives cry and comfort each other
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In pictures: Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 Missing AirAsia flight QZ8501 A child writes a post-it note on a board of well wishes for the passengers of the missing AirAsia flight QZ 8501, outside the relatives' holding area at Changi airport in Singapore
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“My son, he’s not alone on the plane. If this is god’s will then so be it.”
Captain Irianto’s daughter has reportedly posted a plea on social media for her father to come home safely.
The daughter of the pilot of the missing AirAsia plane has posted a message on social media saying "Papa come back, I still need you" (Twitter) Identified as Angela, she uploaded a picture of him and wrote: “Papa pulang. Kakak masih butuh papa. Kembalikan papaku. Papa pulang pa, papa harus ketemu.”
It roughly translates to: “Papa come back. I still need you. Return my papa to me. Papa come back, we have to meet.”
Hopes are fading for the 162 people on board the plane, which was on its way from Surabaya in Indonesia to Singapore when it disappeared yesterday.
As the search continued today, Australian planes spotted objects in the sea that are feared to be wreckage from the Airbus A320-200.
An Indonesian official had already warned that the aircraft was likely to be on the ocean floor.
A map of where the AirAsia flight QZ8501 went missing Henry Bambang Soelistyo, of the National Search and Rescue, said: “Based on the co-ordinates that we know, the evaluation would be that any estimated crash position is in the sea, and that the hypothesis is the plane is at the bottom of the sea.”
A British national, named as Chi Man Choi , according to reports of the passenger manifest in the Indonesian media, is among those on board the plane and was believed to be travelling with his daughter, Zoe.
Twelve navy ships, five planes, three helicopters and a number of warships are searching an area of east and south-east Belitung island and nearby waters for the plane.
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