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Denmark’s parenting secret to avoid conflict and meltdowns

Want to avoid conflicts and meltdowns? Bring children up the Danish way
  • Experts believe the high happiness levels among Danish children are linked to the country's unique parenting style.
  • The Danish Way of parenting uses six principles: play, authenticity, reframing, empathy, no ultimatums, and togetherness.
  • This approach reduces conflict by encouraging collaboration, emotional honesty, understanding a child's perspective, and creating a sense of family unity.
  • Instead of viewing everyday tasks as obstacles, Danish parents involve children, fostering helpfulness and reducing power struggles.
  • Hygge, a concept of cosiness and shared enjoyment, further strengthens family bonds and creates a positive atmosphere.
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