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'Give kids a right royal rollicking'

School behaviour tsar spells out his solution to Britain's unruly classrooms: don't suspend pupils, just send them to the head.

By Richard Garner, Education Editor

A good old-fashioned bawling out in the head's office can be a better way of dealing with badly behaved pupils than suspending them, the Government's behaviour "tsar" says today.

Sir Alan Steer, a former headteacher, warns that schools that frequently suspend pupils for two or three weeks at a time should review their policies because they are failing to tackle poor behaviour.

"Sending them to the head and giving them a right royal rollicking could be better than giving them a fixed-term exclusion," he said in an interview with The Independent.

"Some schools seem to have very high levels of fixed-term exclusions," he said ."I don't see that as showing you're tough on discipline. It could be absolutely the opposite. It is not being very effective and you might need to rethink your strategy if a pupil is excluded again and again. They just get used to being out of school."

Sir Alan, a former head of Seven Kings school in Ilford, Essex, who is coming to the end of his four-year tenure, was speaking for the first time since his "swansong" report on discipline last month. His comments also come on the day a new report shows that bright pupils in disadvantaged schools are missing out on GCSE grades because of the anti-learning culture of other children in the school.

The report, by the education charity the Sutton Trust, revealed talented pupils in the most disadvantaged schools underperform compared to pupils from the suburbs by half a grade per GCSE.

Sir Alan also discussed his plan to enshrine in law the teacher's right to impose discipline – making measures such as detention and confiscating mobile phones legal. He considers the new powers necessary because too many parents challenge school discipline rather than support it. As a result, some schools are reluctant to use traditional methods of discipline.

Sir Alan also warned that schools are flouting a new law under which children expelled or suspended are entitled to a full-time education after six days out of the classroom. By not sticking to the rules, excluded pupils are left to roam the streets and are falling prey to gang influences. "They're not likely to go to libraries," he added.

Figures show that, while the overall number of permanent exclusions has fallen to around 8,680 a year, the number of suspensions has risen. In particular, according to figures released by the Conservatives, the number of children excluded more than 10 times in a year has tripled in four years.

Michael Gove, the shadow Education Secretary, says that headteachers should have more freedom to exclude pupils permanently by abandoning the right to appeal against exclusion, but Sir Alan said he believed Mr Gove's case to be "misleading".

"It is said that 25 per cent of pupils successfully appeal," he said. "Well, there are 8,680 permanent exclusions – 970 of which went to appeal. Of these 250 were successful but only 100 of them ended with the pupil being being reinstated. You can see where they got the 25 per cent figure from, just about, but the number reinstated was about 1.2 per cent of the total."

Sir Alan also wants new powers allowing teachers to search pupils for weapons, drugs and alcohol to be reviewed in three years' time to see whether they are effective. He said: "If you're faced with a 6ft 6in teenager you suspect of having a machete, I would be the first to say it's a case for bringing in the boys in blue rather than searching for it yourself."

Sir Alan, who caused controversy when he launched his latest report at the National Association of Schoolmasters Union of Women Teachers' conference with a declaration that "there is no behaviour crisis in schools", stuck to his guns. "I really strongly believe we don't have a crisis in our schools," he said. "We have problems and we have to tackle them but there have always been problems. Most kids are great. Why don't we think more of the 150,000 kids who are sole carers for their family – or the tens of thousands who spend hours and hours volunteering in the community? We have a tendency to be constantly negative about children."

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sound man
[info]vhawk1951 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 12:23 am (UTC)
the Head, should be a man or person of real authority, inspiring awe and respect by virtue of his or her being and air of authority and other inner qualities; the ability to "inspire" respect and affection and, yes, betimes, a little fear in others.

people with these qualities- is leadership the single word?- unfortunately do not grown on trees or this would be a blissful world
The birch....
[info]thisanthat wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 03:19 am (UTC)
A taste of the birch liberally administered when the occasion arises serves both the culprit and his/her peers well with regard to matters of discipline and how to behave properly!!!
[info]northwest0161 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 04:11 am (UTC)
My schooling from age 14 onwards suffered due to disruption from other pupils who were 'anti-learning' and that was 1974. It's a shame it has gone on for so long.
Same here
[info]kuma2000 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:37 am (UTC)
I'm sure you also had to ensure you don't appear to be too keen to avoid further problems from those 'anti-learning' kids. Those who failed to learn to display a certain level of tact were exposed to a torrent of daily abuse...
I agree to you and Mr. Balls. I love many opinions. I get confused
[info]famulla wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 04:22 am (UTC)
'Give kids a right royal rollicking'
Tell me, who is Mr. Balls? We seem to have too many directives on the school these days.
School behaviour tsar spells out his solution to Britain's unruly classrooms: don't suspend pupils, just send them to the head.
By Richard Garner, Education Editor
Sir Alan Steer, a former headteacher, warns that schools that frequently suspend pupils for two or three weeks at a time should review their policies because they are failing to tackle poor behaviour.
I agree to you and Mr. Balls. I love many opinions. However, who will follow these. We are confused in the poverty lane. The politics too stinks these days and we want to revamp this as Brown is looking for another foot!!!
I thank you
Firozali A. Mulla

[info]the_kegs wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 04:46 am (UTC)
The truth is that the days of being able to embarrass kids into behaving themselves is long gone, namby pamby political correctness put a stop to that. Now we need stronger measures and that means the return of corporal punishment followed by National Service. This might, just might, save us from the need for capital punishment somewhere down the line.
A Visitor from Mars?
[info]thorntongate wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 06:40 am (UTC)
It's one of those April 1st moments again.

We have seen a succession of 'tsars' come and go - the drugs tsar was a particularly egregious example - and they are usually an attempt to gull the public into thinking strong action is being taken.

In short: they're a branch of spin.

Sir Alan hasn't got a clue about the impact of the current hedonist dystopia, nor does he connect with the social and economic forces which raise the question in many teenager's mind: "WTF?"

If your fate is shelf stacking in the local Tescos, why not start at 14?
Educational Rollicking
[info]rhinocircus wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 07:01 am (UTC)
How does a Royal Rollicking differ from a Rollicking? No, I'm being as flippant as the article is fatuous.
The Education Ministers should apologise, on behalf of all governments since British Heydays of Empire, for having squandered the wealth of the country on foreign wars and ventures, when it could have done much to improve the education of the seed corn (children) of Britain.
Twelve or fourteen pupils to a teacher, surely would have produced a better and more educated character.
Many more schools and not many less, might have been a convincing argument for a serious debate about troublesome pupils, but as long as education is being treated like a necessary evil for the masses, then articles like these are ridiculous.
Such hypocrisy is becoming to a country, which still denies its two-tier, two-class system and devil take the hindmost. As ye sow, so shall ye reap?
no easy choices
[info]shahrik wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 07:28 am (UTC)

the kids of today are voracious and have more "human" rights than any generation before.
you seriously think a talking-to by the headmaster is of any relevance to a teenager
in 2009? dream on.
....and would you want to be the headmaster or the teacher doing the disciplining to be
slapped by a lawsuit? i doubt it.

The only way would be to have a 3 strikes and you are out policy...in which case what do you
do with the kid then?
Or of course that "old chestnut", making the parents pay for the indiscretions of the child.

Teaching...who on earth would want to go into that profession?
Re: no easy choices
[info]janedeed wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 09:27 pm (UTC)
Thank you Sharik. You have summed up the experiences faced by many teachers on a daily basis. The 'Human Rights' bleats are reaching deafening proportions. No longer are teenagers required to take responsibility for their behaviour or actions - there is a get-out clause for every occasion: single parent family, living on a sink estate, add, adhd, on Ritalin, forgotten to take Ritalin, run out of Ritalin, currently undergoing a 'say "no" to drugs' course, receiving counselling, anger management, alcohol awareness courses and so on. Any of these reasons can be used in mitigation when a student 'loses it' in school.

My school employs a full time, uniformed police officer on the premises. Another member of staff is an ex-policeman. He tells me that if our students spoke to a police officer the way they speak to school staff, they would be arrested on the spot. Sadly, we have no such deterrent in schools and so will remain human punchbags (verbal and physical) thanks to the misguided, politically-correct dogma that is spawned by government education officials.
Not going to do any good!
[info]markmywords1 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 07:30 am (UTC)
Would a pupil actually be allowed into the Headmasters office on their own? With the door closed? To receive a verbal dressing down (also know as a RRR!)? Don't think so. Wouldn't be allowed. The pupil could make allegations of anything and the Headmaster would be suspended. Test it.
What a Silly Old Man
[info]cloudesley wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 07:56 am (UTC)
A right, royal rollicking, followed by confiscation of tuck, no doubt. What a silly, silly old man.
Re: What a Silly Old Man
[info]tiggerhappy87 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:29 am (UTC)
I agree that suspension isn't a good punishment because the majority of kids who play up do it because they don't want to be there. Suspending these pupils will just encourage them to play up. Before any form of discipline in school is effective, parents will have to have control over their children.
oh well...
[info]jaffgyp wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:06 am (UTC)
oh well, here's yet another person who has escaped from the classroom into a nice warm office and is full of bright ideas;
the only sensible idea so far on this page is that any 'child' over say 14 who has a job or job training to go to (or maybe even who can prove that they can be self-supporting?) should be allowed to leave school provided that they agree to regular monitoring until they are, say, 16;
there is no point at all in expecting schools to put to rights all the wrongs of the fundamentally dishonest society in which today's 'children' are growing up and whose shoddy values they are absorbing daily;

(from yet another person who has escaped from the classroom- this time into a nice warm if extremely penurious early retirement -remember all those early retirements of c 20 years ago?- almost everyone i know in my age group got out as soon as the offer was made - and many if us moved into teaching evening classes full of VOLUNTEERS and my god that was lovely!
silly billy
[info]gerard1904 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:08 am (UTC)
Is this fellow serious? All of the social engineering undertaken over the last 40 has resulted in the package we have today. Don't blame the disfuncional families, the brutal "stepfathers", the teachers being unable to teach their charges. Blame the so called progressives who have their own agenda of career progression and conning the rest of us. We need more rowdy classrooms, more tortured and battered babies, more pregnant children, more police brutality, - thats where we are heading.
right royal rollicking
[info]gardenmum wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:09 am (UTC)
Sir Alan Steer is right in his approach to discipline in secondary schools. I have lived in the Seven Kings area for 25 years. When Sir Alan Steer became head of Seven Kings High School it was an average school. Under his leadership it has improved to being one of the three best schools in Redbridge (topped only by the two grammar schools in the area!). All my children attended Seven Kings and I have had close contact with the school over the time they were there. None of them were 'high-flyers' academically (in fact two of them needed 'Special Needs'support) but that did not matter. The discipline and moral tone of the school were what benefitted them most . None of them ever reported incidents of ill discipline in the classroom that were not dealt with swiftly and effectively by the staff and Sir Alan himself. I live near the school gates and also can only recall two incidents of trouble outside the school. On both occaisions the staff themselves came out to deal with the incidents.Sir Alan Steer DOES know what he is talking about !!!
At last! - common-sense...
[info]sportingmac wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:15 am (UTC)
..this will work - but only if the Head is a person of some 'awe'. No wishy-washy liberal need apply - we need Martin Johnson look-a-likes for this - then it will work - and extremely well. Back-chat and 'ooman rights' won't feature in their fearful response of 'Yes Sir' I am betting.

We need to put this on the staute books - it is so right.
No behaviour crisis in schools...sure...my derriere
[info]pozac wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:21 am (UTC)
"Sir Alan Steer, a former headteacher, warns that schools that frequently suspend pupils for two or three weeks at a time should review their policies because they are failing to tackle poor behaviour."

Appearently poor behavior is attempting to be changed by poor "discipline"...a word wich I noticed was left out of the ENTIRE article...WHY? Sure we want "behavior modification" but that phrase seems to have been overlooked also. I watch The Nanny here in America all the time and if she can't fix the problem then it can't be fixed! That is unless you want to do it the "old fashioned" way...the way my mother and daddy did it. Allow the offender(s) to go outside and pick a switch of their choice...if they fail to pick one that will do the job sufficiently then send them out AGAIN, until they get one that the teacher or principal can work with. You then have them bend over and tap them with sufficient force that they let out a little yelp (sorta like a pup when you step on it's tail). Continue this process until the offender's yelps (that tend to be worse than the spanking being administered) cease to be
very loud and they are now bearing real tears at a whimper...you have now got your message across to the individual that HAD a behavioral problem. Glory be! That individual will now mind much better in class and allow ALL the other student who had been abiding by the school's class rules to be able to pay more attention in that class now. I certainly hope no ONE think this be too harsh...it is NOT meant to be the first discipline applied but this should be the 3rd time offense punishment (another bad word I suppose)...a lot of people cringe at the thought of corporal punishment...but it DOES work when administered correctly.

I came from a family of 10 children...there is not enough time in a day to put that many kids in "time out"...my mother would have freaked had she tried this. My mother was a devout church going lady and she certainly knew what the Bible says about disciplining children. As a child I used to hear comments of praise heaped on my mother. I can recall several but one in particular. "Mrs. Watkins, you sure have a large group of well-behaved children...I don't know how you do it." And since they did not know...their children and ALL the other children whose parents had NO concept of how corporal punishment works has put the world into the position that is now in ALL our homes, schools and universities.
Deal with it and expect it to get a lot worse in the future...God Bless

Happy Mother's Day Mom...I Love You!
Z. Watkins
Texas

And in a similar statment...
"Sir Alan, who caused controversy when he launched his latest report at the National Association of Schoolmasters Union of Women Teachers' conference with a declaration that "there is no behaviour crisis in schools", stuck to his guns."

What a phrase to use coming from that part of the world...WHAT GUNS?





Re: No behaviour crisis in schools...sure...my derriere
[info]sportingmac wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 10:56 am (UTC)
I'm from a large family too Pozac - and exactly as you say - it worked for us. I do think that the issue is with parents - and teachers - who don't know how to handle conflict and discipline - for me they go hand in hand. Set clear and reasonable rules and enforce these rules - no ifs no buts no maybes - enforce by the rules' penalties. Works for me.
London bus drivers
[info]bradwollongong wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:42 am (UTC)
I think they drove all the little sh@&ts out of school and gave them bus licences.

Brad, Sydney
The Young People Of Today, Eh?
[info]leonard_merryl wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 09:05 am (UTC)
Give 'em a short back-and-sides, put em in the Army for a while, that'll teach 'em discipline, eh?

Oops, tried that, didn't work either.
RRR
[info]meddygmadog wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 09:06 am (UTC)
The priority should be a decent education for the well behaved children.Their right to an education is greater than the rights of the badly behaved children to wreck the lessons.If this means tough discipline then let's have it. We have tried kindness and understanding and two generations of children have underachieved as a result.It will not be easy,but the yobs in the classroom must be controlled.
Amen, Sir Alan
[info]susanphila wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 09:37 am (UTC)
It's a MESS here in the U.S. as well, and I'd love to see Sir Alan do a tour right here in our country. Bravo!
Education
[info]reggaebecky wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 09:59 am (UTC)
This is a difficult problem because its as much about unfit parents as difficult children. These parents not only damage the lives of their chlidren, but also innocent children denied the conditions to learn at an important stage in their lives.
Unfit parents are also effectively the authors of an unelected opposition to any Govt educational policy. These parents must accept social responsiblity. Their children should be sent to existing boarding schools durring the week.


School discipline
[info]ouldbob wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 10:34 am (UTC)
A chewing out by an impotent head master will have no effect whatsoever on recalcitrant pupils.
There is no sanction to support the purely verbal castigation, so it is pointless. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me".
It is time to bring back the cane. No pupil has ever been harmed by justifiable application of bamboo on gluteus maximus.
I well remember standing outside the headmaster's study very publicly, because everybody had to pass by that particular door, so everyone knew you were there. There was no hiding, and the prospect of a thrashing made even the loudest braggarts keep their mouths shut.
The Balance Has Gone
[info]nejm wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 12:19 pm (UTC)
I think the fundamental problem in schools and with children in general is that we have gone from one extreme to the other. There was a time when children were treated unfairly because adults ruled by fear - think 'seen and not heard, the awesome headteacher, the cane, 'Another Brick In The Wall' etc - and now, they're not treated enough like children, and that is unfair too. When I was GCSE age, in the mid-late '90s, there seemed to be a balance between treating children like people, but still remembering that they're not yet adults, which for the most part fostered an appropriate level of discipline. Admittedly I was not at a 'disadvantaged' school, but there were troubled pupils, and in those cases suspension was a last resort behind a lot of 'talkings-to' by teachers.

Not being a parent, teacher or a current student, I don't claim to be an expert on these things, but I do agree with those who have said that there are no easy answers to this question, and that the problem is probably a wider socioeconomic/cultural one.
Bad Behaviour in schools
[info]billedmunds wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 02:06 pm (UTC)
What we need to tackle the problem of disruption in schoold are more Pupil Referral Units. Disruptive children should be swiftly transferred to these special schools without any right to appeal. The PRU's or special schools should have longer school days and shorter holidays to encourage a swift change to behaviour. They should be staffed by those Teachers who are good at facing down yobs and who currently move out of the classroom as swiftly as possible to become non-teaching Line Managers. If the trouble-makers were swwiftly removed from mainstream schools the effect on the other children who tend to go along with the disruptors would be magical and Teachers would be able to teach their subjects rather than dealing with constant interruptions.
Re: Bad Behaviour in schools
[info]dave00789 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 03:26 pm (UTC)
I and My peers Got the Cain Slipper and the board rubber.. some of those teachers were great shots, did us no harm at all, and to be frank DID US UNTOLD GOOD as we became adult the things that mean so much about school were the great lessons had and shared by all, and the fact you got a clout in front of the class did even more good, because you felt a part of the class not excluded from it ..No special schools no exclusion, they become a joke, and the kids love the time off and helps with so-called street credibility

Bad behaviour in schools
[info]undunno wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 06:12 pm (UTC)
Don't make me laugh. Why would today's unruly yobs in school be impressed by a headmaster's telling-off?
[info]caz963 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 06:59 pm (UTC)
OFFS!! At the last school I worked at, the Head could walk into a classroom where WW3 had broken out and the kids wouldn't take a blind bit of notice!

I think billendmunds has got the right idea. I've taught in a number of tough schools and I see the same thing over and over again - the majority of pupils are ready and willing to get on with their lessons, but are prevented from doing so by a "hard core" of disruptive pupils. The trouble is, that whereas when I was at school, this "core" might number half a dozen or so pupils throughout the school, now it's that many per class! If I was able to remove all those from my classes - add their number to the kids who are disrupting other classes... where do you put them?

What is needed is (sorry for the cliche!) the short sharp shock which a PRU can provide. It won't work for all the disruptive pupils, but it would work for some which would mean that they - and the other pupils in the class - would stand a better chance of getting an education.
Re: No behaviour crisis in schools...sure...my derriere
[info]pozac wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 08:57 pm (UTC)
Sportingmac...I have two children in this marriage. Both of these kids have had all the opportunities to live a full life...they have earned ALL that we as parents could give them.
The oldest is 20 now and the youngest is 14. They have both done extremely well so far in their young lives. They both have been disciplined the "old fashion way". They are model students and young adults...both are extremely "high achievers". Here is a small sample of my oldest childs achievment...her name is Samantha. She is currently a rated as a Senior at this grand ol' University. I wish all parents were this lucky!


http://smu.edu/ps/Current_Scholars/profiles/swatkins.asp
Re: No behaviour crisis in schools...sure...my derriere
[info]mohamed1 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 11:07 pm (UTC)
It's a shame this country & the western world has cir cum to the liberals! Yes, their were a few that had a raw deal in the past! But why should the majority and now society as a whole pay for the utter nonsense that is 'liberal bull'? Their will always be the FEW that get a raw deal (even now) & their will ALWAYS be the uncontrollable youths. But why treat all children the same when they ARE NOT the same? Punish the bad as an example to the good or the good will be tainted by those bad eggs! And we've all seen where this leads! God bless the United Kingdom and the world.

'Judge not by race or sex but by actions & intent'
Me 2009
Look back with regret
[info]ameliemaryann wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 11:36 pm (UTC)
What's the point of 'enshrining in law the teacher's power of discipline' when, as stated in this article, the parents "challenge" it? You'd have to educate and discipline the parents first before tackling their offspring wouldn't you? Also, what is the point of searching pupils for weapons on school premises? So the knife arch determines they haven't taken a knife into the school buildings but what's to stop one of their mates throwing one over the school fence?

What happens when the monsters leave school? Riots outside? We've had a few of those already. Attacks on public transport? Sir Alan, retire, smoke your pipe, do your garden while you can. Governments have destroyed education and thus the citizens of this country over the last forty years..since the last war anyway and tinkering about with searches, exclusions and all the rest of it will do absolutely nothing. There is a hardcore of that hateful word 'kids' in this country now who are so deeply ignorant, so steeped in violence and evil that nothing on earth will change them. They have been made that way. You can't unmake them. Yes, maybe most 'kids' are "great" although I would dispute that statement, but it only takes fewer of those who are not "great" to destroy everything for everyone, not just for each other.



Re: Look back with regret
[info]mohamed1 wrote:
Tuesday, 5 May 2009 at 11:44 pm (UTC)
Here, here.
Cane them
[info]gaius_godd wrote:
Wednesday, 6 May 2009 at 03:37 am (UTC)
'Spare the rod and spoil the child'.

Bring back the cane for schools and prisons.

Discipline works!

Or are we happy with today's violent and disrespectful society?
Alan Steers
[info]morrisseyobe wrote:
Wednesday, 6 May 2009 at 06:19 am (UTC)
As Steers tenure is coming to its close I think tax payers should know what the 4 years of Steers work has cost us . I doubt he would pass his OFSTED but he will still get paid and lets also know what siz e pension he is going to receive. I would rate the value of his work as around 5p a year it is that useful , we may even be over paying him at rate
No behaviour crisis in schools
[info]berserkerboy wrote:
Wednesday, 6 May 2009 at 06:32 am (UTC)
What is the matter with you?! You are just saying what people want to hear, and it's pathetic!
Bring back the cane in schools with necessary controls to avoid sadism. Make prisons a place you don't want to end up in.
Otherwise you get anarchy,..., and we're nearly there I assure you!
Sir What?
[info]kanchenjunga wrote:
Wednesday, 6 May 2009 at 08:16 am (UTC)
Sir What is another fool given responsibility for other people and titled ' Behaviour Czar.' Just using this concept of czar is enough to make one vomit as we only have to look at previous persons with that title and to see what happened to them and why.

His panacea is laughable and is typical of the shallow insulting policies which have gone on in the name of education for at least the last 30 years. Of course it is not surprising that these people advise such nonsense as they too have been so called educated here, be it private or public.

When teachers have been hamstrung for years by moronic policies and only the tip of the iceberg has been sniffed at, is it surprising that we have this situation?

The whole picture has to be explained from a position which is outside the box, thus parents, the media, myopic cultural relativism, extreme capitalism and the growth of a society which contains few values based on ethical human endeavour is to blame for the mess this country is in.
The big picture holds the key and not one which is held by those idiots with titles.

Ah well this guy is a good accountant he rips us off, give that person a title for services rendered to moronicity - (new word).
Re: No behaviour crisis in schools...sure...my derriere
[info]pozac wrote:
Thursday, 7 May 2009 at 09:26 am (UTC)
Sportmac...parents have to take the responsibility...just look at where the kids came from. They are kids of parents who where kids during the Hippie Days. I got along with those people but inside I felt they were fighting the system, were anti-war and anti-authoritative. You had to see what this would do with all the free love that was around.

Most people with that type of mentality most likely would never be able to raise children that could adjust to the system instead of
vica-verca. I just kept my distance and picked my friends carefully. Lots of crazy people running loose during that time period. The DOJ/BOP has done nothing but grow bigger since then also...with the biggie being drug arrests.
[info]cb51501 wrote:
Saturday, 9 May 2009 at 07:55 am (UTC)
I enjoy reading the news on the other side of the pond. Interesting is that we all face pretty much the same problems in the States that you face. Of course, I don't know the answer. It's quite perplexing really. Here in the States, I had one of those unruly 6 foot 5 inch sons. The interesting thing is that I didn't have any discipline problem with him at home. However, when he was at school it became a game for him. One he became very good at. He had authority problems only at school. Even today it puzzles me. I had finally had enough of them "kicking him out" for a week or two. He went and received a general education diploma that took him less than a week to get. It's not that he was dumb. He's very sociable and can be quite charming as well. However, when teachers tried to force their authority it was like a trigger for him. A game. He was very good at it, and he usually won. The prize must have been getting expelled for a few days or a week. I just want to say it's not just my son who was like this, but more like his entire generation that is this way. They don't seem to "look up" to teachers, but rather they seem to feel that they are on the same level as them. Same with their parents, or whom ever else. It's interesting that when the principal or teacher stopped forcing authority upon him and talked to him just like they would their own peers, an interesting thing happened. He was no longer a problem for that teacher. Naturally most teachers would not even consider trying this, so consequently; in the end, he dropped out of school. I'm not saying this is the answer. It is interesting, however, that it did seem to work with my son. Here in the States we have a huge problem with kids dropping out of school before they graduate. That's a tragedy. We have police officers in our schools to "search" children and for control. That doesn't seem to be the answer either. Like the article says, most kids are great. I just want to say that I believe that most of the kids getting kicked out, or in trouble....hey they are probably great kids too! Maybe it's time we listen to them and find out what some of the issues with them are. We don't have the answers...maybe they do.
Sir Alan knows what hes on about
[info]radford01 wrote:
Tuesday, 12 May 2009 at 10:17 pm (UTC)
Being a parent having a child who has been excluded i can relate to Sir Alans message, exclusion does nothing for the childs education and the question is what does the child learn from exclusion, as parents we believe in discipline and if they has done wrong we take away the privelages they enjoy doing like football, club, grounding. by excluding a child from school they are only losing their education and what benefits do this bring the child and the system for later life. On reading this message board i am quite taken back by how negative people are towards children, if you show a child all this negativeness it will only cause low self esteem and this cause a child to create attention, give a child positiveness and they will prosper. On the subject of exclusion my son had not been excluded for over a two year period when his headmaster was taken ill and is long term sick, a acting head was put in charge and within a two week period of being at the school three children including my son were excluded from this class, no goverment guidelines were followed and no other course of action was considered although available, exclusion is the easy option for teachers as to behaviour tolerant, we have always worked with the school and supported them in the twelve years attending the school, one of my concerns with exclusion is that you are fighting a losing battle, the governing body have to be seen to back the head and so does the local education authority.

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