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Why women really do love self-obsessed psychopaths

By Steve Connor, Science Editor


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The best fictional example of a man with the 'dark triad' of traits, is James Bond

Bad boys, it seems, really do get all the girls. Women might claim they want caring, thoughtful types but scientists have discovered what they really want – self-obsessed, lying psychopaths.

A study has found that men with the "dark triad" of traits – narcissism, thrill- seeking and deceitfulness – are likely to have a larger number of sexual affairs.

Peter Jonason, of New Mexico University in Las Cruces, believes that these traits may have an innate, genetic component that explains why some men seem unable to stop themselves behaving badly.

The dark triad of traits are the self-obsession of narcissism, the impulsive, thrill-seeking and callous behaviour of psychopaths and the deceitful and exploitative nature of Machiavellianism. "We have some evidence these traits may represent a successful evolutionary strategy," Dr Jonason told New Scientist magazine.

Many famous men – from James Dean to Pete Doherty – could be said to show elements of the dark triad of traits, but perhaps the best fictional example is James Bond. "He's clearly disagreeable, very extrovert and likes trying new things – including killing people and new women," Dr Jonason said.

The study subjected 200 college students to personality tests designed to rank them in terms of the dark triad. They were also asked about their sexual relationships, including their attitude towards brief affairs.

Dr Jonason said those with the highest rating in terms of the dark triad tended to have more partners and a greater desire for short-term affairs.

The dark triad approach is one way of maximising a man's reproductive potential by having sex with many females, while not bothering to stick around to help with the children. "The strategy seems to have worked. We still have these traits," Dr Jonason said.

David Schmitt, of Bradley University in Peoria, Illinois, surveyed 35,000 people in 57 countries and found a similar link. "It is universal across cultures," he said.

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Obvious flaw in this study..
[info]kiwidirtbag wrote:
Thursday, 5 February 2009 at 10:34 am (UTC)
They asked people who they have already stated are inherently deceitful about their sexual affairs? Most narcissstic people I know would exaggerate their sexual prowess... its in their nature !
Re: Obvious flaw in this study..
[info]oceanic1 wrote:
Monday, 16 February 2009 at 09:18 pm (UTC)
I married a psycopath and he lies to himself about his true sexual ability and sees himself as much better than what he actually is.

As for the having many partners it may be that they have many partners because they need them for their ego where as most men settle for one partner. My ex slept with hookers as he could pay to abuse them. He actually thought that they had sex with him because they were enjoying it and not because he was paying them. Having sex with a drugged up, scabby looking women has nothing to do with sexual reproduction. Its about victimisation, abuse and the need to feel powerfull over someone.

Also as they are such good liars it takes a long time to work out what they are lying about and they can charm there way into a womens bed. Most men arent so good at hiding there faults and do not process such charm because they are being true to themselves and to their partners.
Re: Obvious flaw in this study.. I think so.
[info]brazil2009 wrote:
Thursday, 5 November 2009 at 12:29 pm (UTC)
oceanic1, I do hope the couple of you are now divorced.
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Tuesday, 7 April 2009 at 10:06 am (UTC)
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A bit of an assumption?
[info]ptolemeia wrote:
Thursday, 11 June 2009 at 09:31 am (UTC)
To interpret "those with the highest rating in terms of the dark triad tended to have more partners" to mean that "women love self-obsessed" psychopaths is a bit of a leap. Fact is, the women do NOT love such men, they are victimized and duped by them. If the women were asked, I'm sure they would reveal that the men concealed their true natures and pretended to be caring and thoughtful just long enough to "hook" the woman. The reader might want to have a look at psychotherapist Sandra L. Brown's two books: "How to Spot a Dangerous Man" and "Women Who Love Psychopaths" for a far more enlightening look at the situation.
[info]sazzles1 wrote:
Tuesday, 16 June 2009 at 07:49 pm (UTC)
Women want good providers. That's it really!
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[info]ojoojo wrote:
Wednesday, 14 October 2009 at 11:57 pm (UTC)
I think the part about women wanting self-obsessed psychopaths is a bit of a shock-jock oversimplification. Women don’t like self-obsessed psychopaths for the sake of being self-obsessed psychopaths, but because they’re mostly the people with enough dominance, self-confidence and thrill seeking passion to be really attractive. Seduction blogs and newspapers could go out and say that women are attracted to certain traits and that psychopaths are often the ones to have them, but just choose to go ”they like psychopaths heh how about that :coolface:” and make men think they need to throw away all their good will and respect for other humans to get laid, which is really not the case.
I know it's journalism, but--
[info]ojoojo wrote:
Thursday, 15 October 2009 at 12:11 am (UTC)
I think the part about women wanting self-obsessed psychopaths is a bit of a shock-jock oversimplification. Women don’t like self-obsessed psychopaths for the sake of being self-obsessed psychopaths, but because they’re mostly the people with enough dominance, self-confidence and thrill seeking passion to be really attractive. Seduction blogs and newspapers could go out and say that women are attracted to certain traits and that psychopaths are often the ones to have them, but just choose to go ”they like psychopaths heh how about that :coolface:” and make men think they need to throw away all their good will and respect for other humans to get laid, which is really not the case.

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