'Silvio's sex life: why Italians don't care'
Europe has been transfixed by the saga of Silvio Berlusconi and the escort girl, but the Italian Prime Minister has been getting an easy time back home. Ezio Mauro, editor of La Repubblica, explains why in this exclusive article for The Independent
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Silvio Berlusconi is not only the prime minister of Italy but also controls 'the entire universe of Italian television'
There is a crack that has opened all of a sudden between Silvio Berlusconi and his voters, between the prime minister's mythological image and reality.
It is nothing more than a crack, in a wall of consensus that is very high and very robust. But it is an important crack and one that is growing. It showed up in the European elections last month (the prime minister had announced that he would bag 45 per cent of the vote, he ended up with 35 per cent); it widened with the Church having to take a stand against his behaviour. What happens now?
For the first time, the prime minister is on the defensive. He has to operate according to an agenda that is not his and over which he has no control; he is feeling the pressure from the international media; and he is being forced to speak about his troubles every time he appears in public.
How come, our foreign friends ask us, Italy is not reacting like any other Western democracy? Why has the crack not become a chasm?
First of all, one might reply, the majority of Italians know nothing about the scrapes their leader has got himself into in the past few days. I think the English know more about his troubles than the Italians, for example, and come to mention it the Spanish and Germans too. In Italy, the television channels have done nothing to cover this affair, despite the fact that it revolves around sex, money and power, all ingredients that would interest their viewers.
You have to remember of course, that Berlusconi – as well as being the head of the government and the biggest party in the country – controls the entire universe of Italian television. He owns three private television channels, because he never felt duty-bound to get rid of them on entering politics; and the three public stations over which the party in power, whether left or right, has always exerted control. But the current monopoly of mainstream television is without precedent. It has led to the elimination of the modern agora, that public space for information and debate in which the delicate free market of consensus develops in the West.
Just consider the fact that 73 per cent of Italians (according to data from Censis research institute) made up their minds about who to vote for in the last elections through the television, and you have a concrete idea of what conflict of interest means.
The new element that the latest scandal has exposed is that the television monopoly does not only guarantee a favourable presentation of the prime minister, it can actually cancel out reality, prevent things from becoming part of the public consciousness. This week, the week of the escort tapes, six prime-time TV news bulletins did not let their viewers know what the Spanish, the English and the Germans were able to read about in their papers.
The Italian bulletins eventually include Berlusconi's exasperated reaction to the news, but without ever explaining what that news was, what he was reacting to. "I am not a saint," the prime minister said on Wednesday after the recordings of the night he spent at his home with the escort, Patrizia D'Addario, emerged. This headline finally made it on to TG1 (flagship news programme of the Rai state network) and TG5 (the main news programme of the Mediaset empire owned by Berlusconi) but their viewers had been told nothing about the tapes that prompted it.
In some senses, George Orwell has already said it all: "And if all others accepted the lie which the Party imposed – if all records told the same tale – then the lie passed into history and became truth. 'Who controls the past', ran the Party slogan, 'controls the future: who controls the present controls the past.'" But there is something more subtle going on Italy. Fifteen years ago, the Left lost its cultural hegemony, that is to say the capacity to promote its values through cinema, television, glossy magazines, through the debate in newspapers and academic circles. The Right has become the ringmaster of the new hegemony and it is culture on a different scale.
The country no longer has a public opinion, capable of reacting autonomously or making spontaneous judgements. On the contrary, Italians are immersed in a "common understanding", which is something else altogether. It is Berlusconi who is the great architect of this "common understanding" and at the same time the interpreter of its success.
As far as the latest news is concerned, the new hegemony has imprisoned the opposition in a web, using tried and tested defences: the protection of privacy, the belittling of gossip, and a clear distinction between the professional and the personal.
But there is nothing private about a statesman who turned his own family photo album into a manifesto and sent it to 50 million Italians, who recounted his life story as the destiny of the nation. And there is nothing private about his wife Veronica Lario's denunciation that highlighted a general political problem: the trashy exchange of a young woman's favours for a place on the list of electoral candidates. There is, in short, a fundamental problem: Berlusconi has kept Italy in a state of high tension for 15 years. Using emotions is the most effective way of introducing a modern populism. This is a populism that asks citizens to mobilise, not so they can get involved in public debate, but so they can anoint the leader with their vote. He then thinks that he alone can solve the country's problems, with no need for the system of checks and balances typical of a modern state, that this direct coronation by the people makes his power neater and above all others.
In this state of permanent tension, you have the Berlusconian phalanx who don't want to know or hear about the troubles of the cavaliere (the knight), yet are engaged in a perennial defence of their leader. It's a story of a power that is very strong but has shaky foundations, a power ready to transform every criticism into "campaigning", "manoeuvring", even "plotting" and "subversion". A power which is curiously abusive and uncertain, as if it lacked an absolute legitimacy despite the consensus, a power which might be ready to destroy the temple to save itself from the ruins.
If – as Berlusconi said publicly this week – we are seeing an act of subversion at the heart of European democracy, what has the prime minister done to thwart it? What networks of persuasion, of threats, of blackmail have emerged in the past days around who knows, who saw, who participated? How does he use the secret services and the state security apparatus towards the witnesses who are recounting his troubles, the newspapers who are publishing their investigations and the magistrates who are prosecuting?
All this explains perhaps why the crack has not become a chasm. And yet, and yet, the smiling superficiality of a power that considered itself invulnerable has been broken. And all the while Berlusconi continues with his lies, faced with a series of questions that he doesn't know how to answer, because he can't.
Escortgate: Extracts from the sex tapes
PUTIN'S BED
Silvio: I'm going to take a shower too. And if you finish before me, wait for me on the big bed.
Patrizia: Which bed? Putin's?
Silvio: Putin's.
Patrizia: Oh, how cute! The one with the curtains.
MASTURBATION
Patrizia: You know how long it's been since I had sex like I had with you tonight. It's several months, since I broke with my boyfriend.
Silvio: May I? You should have sex with yourself. You should touch yourself often.
THE MORNING AFTER
Silvio: Everything good?
Patrizia: Yes, you?
Silvio: Me, yes. I've worked a lot ... and I don't seem too tired.
Patrizia: Ah, me neither ... It's just my voice that's gone.
Silvio: Eh, how come? We didn't scream.
View from the streets 'I'm not that bothered'
Giordano Mastura, 50, a newsagent from Milan
"We all know what Berlusconi is like. He's so rich and powerful, he does what he likes. If this had happened anywhere else in Europe, the leader would have resigned by now. But he's a billionaire, he controls the media. It means that Italy's like a third-world country. I wish there was something positive to vote for, rather than just voting to get rid of him."
Fabio Vassallo, 33, a TV writer from Naples
"Setting aside my disgust... it seemed like a script from an Italian comedy – especially with the 'Putin's bed' stuff. I liked the soundtrack in the background playing the old Italian musical number 'Zoccole zoccole zoccole' – which in that song means 'rats' but can also mean 'whores'. It was just perfect. But I suppose it makes the country look like a joke, as well."
Claudio Bianco, 46, an optician from Milan
"I didn't even know about the tapes. I didn't see anything on the TV, but that's not a surprise as Berlusconi controls most of that. It's embarrassing for Italy... but even in the next election I don't think I'll vote. Getting rid of Berlusconi wouldn't change much for Italy because the left is so weak."
Giuseppe Flagella, 29, a travel agent from Foggia
"I don't think much of him, but the papers should pay more attention to other things. If he can get away with bribing people, why should he have to quit for what he does in his private life? People are more worried about jobs and finances than what he gets up to at night."
Enrico Dessiri, 30, a graphic designer from Turin
"The sex tapes are really amusing, but I don't think he should resign because of them. Why should he? Because of something he's done in his personal life? Absolutely not. He's not done anything illegal – lots of men his age, with his money, would do similar things. I think the reaction of some people is hypocritical. It's probably being used by his opponents as a way to attack him, because they've failed trying other things."
Silvia Cuoco, 46, waitress, from Milan
"I'm not that bothered about the sex tapes. Though I'm sure Berlusconi is – for someone like him it must be humiliating that everyone knows he has to pay for sex. Who cares what he does in his private life? I'm more concerned that he can't be prosecuted for more serious things, such as corruption, because of the immunity law. But he's also a hypocrite because he supports Family Day and he's against civil partnerships, but then he goes with prostitutes."
Elena Mereghetti, 35, a housewife from Milan
"Sure, all this stuff has damaged Italy's reputation abroad. But I don't think most Italians care. For us a sex scandal isn't such a big deal – even if some foreigners might find that a bit hard to believe. Here you don't quit if you're found guilty of corruption or association with the Mafia. We're fed up with the scandals about his private life. Tell us something we don't know."
Wally Pezzotta, 50, a teacher from Piacenza
"It has become embarrassing. Italy's seen as a joke. It's as if he's still on that cruise ship, flirting with the ladies. In fact he's only doing what he's always done – playing the clown. But come the next election, people will still vote for him because they're stupid, and because the opposition is so weak."
As told to Michael Day
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Am I alone in seeing absolutely nothing wrong in a clear distinction between what is acheived professionally and what goes on between two consenting adults in private? Morals are to do with how you treat your fellow human beings and it is a complete subversion to think that sex per se has anything moral about it. Of course Berlosconi has behaved immorally to his wife, if he promised her he would be faithful, but otherwise, it is all gossip.
But this smearing campaign has been ran out of Italy to exploit the different sensitivity of other cultures in order to diminish the public stature of Berlusconi. They obtained two results, a really tiny one in Italy, a big damage of Italian one abroad.
But, you know, Samson did not care about others...
If I had a choice between a gay PM who was honest in Government and did good for the country, not just for his own private interests, and a sleazy user of prostitutes who is a proven liar, I would definitely choose the first.
These are not just trivial "stories". There is actual proof of his corruption (using government flights for private guests) and immorality. Actual proof. Yet you are so brainwashed that you deliberately choose to ignore it. I despair of your inability to register reality when it is staring in your face, in preference for the easier option, which is to believe nice, big shiny lies you are being fed by Berlusconi's right-wing media monopoly.
Now the changed.. of course.. "line". ehm.. they seem like kids who are in desperate need to find something spicy in order to stimulate their fantasies.. maybe in the last years at La Repubblica they have some problems to satisfy their sexual life.. so they are envious.
and can change lies to reality just like Orwell's big brother due to his media companies.
Today the italian foreign affairs minister Mr. Frattini said "Ms. D'Addario corrupted by journalists" UNBELIEVABLE
And the other question is, what kind of a corrupt sociuety permits that to happen?
They are not stupid enough - unlike so many Brits - to fall for the horrific, extreme left-wing, 'political correctness' that says they should support the evil of immigration, or the evil intrusion into people's private lives, or the evil prurience of the British tabloids, or the evil of feminism, or the evil of Berlusconi's extreme left-wing opponents.
What politicians (or anyone else for that matter - pop stars, judges, businessmen, etc) do in their private lives is utterly irrelevant because it doesn't affect us. We have no right to know about people's private lives. All we should be interested in is whether a politician's policies benefit us or not. That's it.
Obviously most Italians believe Berlusconi's policies are the best - and judging by his extreme left-wing opponents I'm not surprised - ansd are not stupid or gulible enough to be distracted by irrelevancies such as the fact that a man likes to have sex with young women (gosh, what a surprise)!
I am an Italian living in London and reading other italians writing that they don't care about Berlusconi's personal life is disgusting. The actual truth is not that they don't judge a premier for his private life ( if it had happened to a leader from the opposition it would have been an immense scandal ), but that they allow him to do everything, because it's him. I am disgusted by the stupidity of these citizens who vote for Brelusconi at every election despite any thing he does. Yes Berlusconi biggest succes since he started is that he corrupted public morality in politics by putting his interest in front of the Country'ones and controlling the information ( so the truth ). But the main factor is that some people support him despite anything. There is something about Italy nobody says and foreigners don't suspect. This is a country split into two since after the war ( catholics and lthe eft ) and now even more ( Berlusconi-right and the left ). There is a cultural battle between two ideas of civilization behind, with the two sides still not recognizing each other. This is the reason why people support Berlusconi despite all the scandals. Because they are from right and they would never support the left. But shame on them, because by not being objective in judging politicians' morality they are allowing Berlusconi to ruin Italy. Actually these italians deserve Berlusconi, they are just like him.
When some italians say they are not interested in what Berlusconi does you foreigners can read that they are Berlusconi's supporters, directly or indirectly.
Me and many other people in Italy are very interested and craving for a change in political leadership and civil society, because we love our country and we know that it deserves much more than Berlusconi and some italians' mediocrity.
my name is Jorge I am 29 and i am half italian and half dutch.
as you all know in italy the information is filtrated by the media. Berlusconi's family owns Channel 5 channel 4 and italy 1. Rai 1,2,3 are Governement channels, who is the at the Govern right now? Berlusconi.
If you own the media you own your population. Plus, italians dont care because they say: 'it's always been like that', 'every politician is a thief', 'I cannot do nothing to change', 'shit happen' etc etc ...
Berlusconi loves drugs probably, women and money. And would do anything to get those things. And he does one way or the other.
my best regards to all of you
JORGE
As you can see, i completely disagree with Berlusconi's politic and affair, but...
but...this article by Ezio mauro is something awful and completely false.
To understand why Italians don't care about all this sex scandal, we should talk why la Repubblica has started to write about this topic and not about the financial scandals, the mafia's connection and the damages that Berlusconi's government is making more and more day by day. Why la Repubblica never talked about Mill's court case, the English lawyers who was guilted for bribery and corruption with Berlusconi?
Italians don't care no more, because the last time they give the possibility to the left parties - the last Prodi's governement - to change and to put Berlusconi in jail for his crimes, nothing happens... so, the answer is: because the Italians know that the best allied of Berlusconi are Left parties and LaRepubblica, once a newspaper, now a gossip journal.
And, about the Television, it's not real that Berlusconi controls all the universe of italian channels: 70% of Italians look "Sky Channels", and it's owned by Mr. Murdoch, not by Berlusconi...
I live in Germany, I work often as reporter with English and Spanish colleagues and I think that they don't know nothing about Italy...
I hate Berlusconi, but I'm sure that all this stuff is useful only for increasing the power of Berlusconi..
The last thing, just to explain how it works in Italy: I can't write my name on this comment, because, otherwise, as reporter, I can't work no more... this is La Repubblica and Ezio Mauro's style...
In my family none thinks that it's a private question; none of my friends votes for Berlusconi, all my friends are disgusted by his behaviour, private and public.
I don't like this generalization: only 35% of Italians voted for Berlusconi's party at European elections!
ps Sorry for my English.
also if you wrote in italian you were a little wrong.
all my friend and the majority of my colleagues rather that vote the italian Left would vote the Devil
I think they are moved by the envy for the results SB government has reached so far, his goals and most of all the fact that they are not ruling the country.
SB denies the intercourse, says that the escort was paid by the opposition and has sued her and her party.
Personally I have no interest in knowing what he is doing under the sheets.
It was all set up. The escort moved in SB premise. with cameras and voice recorders. How clever !
Berlusconi does own the press: the first news channel is run by a former editor of Panorama, one of Berlusconi's owned and indulging papers. Directors and managers of Rai 1 and Rai 2 , Italy's two main channels, are or have been on his payroll. He owns the majority of the commercial networks, that makes talking about freedom of the press in Italy an hilarious joke to tell friends after dinner. While Corriere and Stampa (two of the biggest papers) struggle to remain neutral, the rest of the press accomplishes Berlusconi's wishes. Left-wing papers (Unita', Manifesto) are much too worried about their own economical situation as well as much too concerned with the situation of the Italian Democratic Party, which is sinking in quicksands.
The press is not entirely occupied by newspapers but nobody takes any pains to mention that: women's monthly magazines, tv guides, newsmagazines: all of them have a "the editor replies" page where editors punctually publish and reply to readers defending, justifying and minimizing the Premier's gestures, or moves.
"Repubblica" is an isolated case: a well-known and glorious newspaper has taken a critical position but the issues they raise are ignored by the TV news or ridiculized.
D'ont read La Repubblica.
Berlusconi is working ( always )
However, it should be told that most well known long date right minds (i.e. journalist Indro Montanelli) soon abandoned Berlusconi's project because it took them a minute to realise what a disonour Berlusconi would be for the right and for Italy.
Many Berlusconi voters vote him and at the same time don't like him. They are thankful to Berlusconi for making them win, before Berlusconi the former fascist party and the ridicuolus Northern League were just a joke and now they rule. Instead of Berlusconi's leadership we should be talking about Berlusconi's ownership.
Concening the left, it is true that it is weak, but there are some good reasons for this. The left has been transforming itself so many times since the end of the cold war and has not yet stabilised. The internal debate is so active that it often results in internal conflict, thus leading to the idea of a lack of leadership that is sometimes an excess of democracy.
To consider ridiculous the Lega Nord is an error which lead this party to expand all over the northern Italy.
Prato is a quite town very close to Florence, for 64 years has been ruled by Communist Party and its heirs, and thanks to Lega now the Major belongs to Berlusconians.
Berlusconi fears more the Sicilian troubles than the whatever else.
to discuss about italian politic it is better to know it
I care about this bad situation, and what I can do? Nothing, absolutely nothing. I never voted for Berlusconi, italians have no voice, only when are coming the elections they can do something but half of italian are people just like Berlusconi, and if they could have the same power and money they do the same. I don't see anymore italian television, I buy only some products that are not publicized at the commercial tv, the problem is very big and Berlusconi is only the top of an iceberg, the Pandora's vase is broken.
His post is a list of offenses to Mr. Mauro expressed in a very inappropriate language.
Of course Mr Manuli did not bother to mention any facts, he limited himself to say that Berlusconi is such a good person that he did not mind to check her guest for microphones before letting her in.
How ridicolous are you, Mr. Manuli? Shame on you!
Sergio D'Ambra
The worst thing about that scandal (the last of a long list that had been covered up)? The women's role, i find that kind of women really despicable, surely they're much worse than street prostitutes (they don't sell their own identity but only their body). And as a woman i feel ashamed.
However, Berlusconi is a sort of endless nightmare for me, i can say that i hate him.
"why oh why would anyone want to be an Italian"
I am not interested on sex habits of mr. Berlusconi (he can do everything he wants, for me, until he pays prostitutes or even trans with his own money).
I am rather worried about the incredible silence that Italian media, with few exceptions, adopted to keep hidden an aspect that for me has absolutely top priority : mr. Berlusconi is a liar.
The proof is crystal clear: until few days before the recordings were published by the newspaper "Espresso", mr. Berlusconi strongly denied to have ever made sex with Daddario or paid any other escort girl. When finally he couldn't hide anymore the truth, he suddenly changed strategy "All of you already know that I'm not a saint", he said smiling and jokingly to an audience.
I really don't care if he is not a saint... I really care, instead, that he gave the most evident proof how deep he can lie. Before recordings were published, he did not hesitate to label criminal any newspaper who was brave enough to attack him.
I guess that the proof that a Prime Minister is a liar would get a enormous evidence in the media of any Country with a solid democracy background, with a sole exception : Italy. Believe it or not, main public TV media, such as Rai 1 or Rai 2, didn't give any evidence to that episode... a perfect, unbelievable, assurd, total.. silence. Few weeks ago, journalists of Rai expressed in a note their worries for not being able to cover adequately some subject related to the ongoing investigations on sex affair of mr. Berlusconi, but apparently it did not change anything.
It's quite evident, to me, that mr. Berlusconi has already found the way to control all important media, so that most Italians will know what he want to be known, and simultaneously they will ignore what he thinks it's better to be kept hidden. That's tremendously worrying.
Even in Thailand the subject has got more attention that it did in Italy.
So, it's very sad, but if I want to know more about this subject, I need to browse in internet and read articles written by foreigner media. It's ok for me, but... what about the millions of people who can't read english or more simply don't want to put their head out of the window to see what the world says about the subject ?
G.Maiani
Then 73% of Italians are idiots then.
alessandro caprotti USA
Berlusconi is also the owner of the biggest italian books, scandalistic magazines and newspapers publishing company, "MONDADORI s.p.a."
So, S. Berlusconi, as prime minister (who can control RAI) and owner of the two biggest media companies in italy, can control most of the news. In tv, only the newscasts of "RAI 3", one day, said something about these sex tapes.
Only 10% of italians read newspapers, but newspapers like "Il giornale", "Il secolo d'italia "La padania" are controlled by the politicians of the government, so readers of independent newspapers are less than 10%.
The most important newspapers like "La repubblica", "Corriere della sera", "La stampa" are independent and every day they publish the sex tapes, but in italy too few people read them so it is all futile, because people who reads these newspapers are people who already know about this scandal.
Berlusconi is like a "legal" dictator: he controls the media in a legal way, using them for its propaganda.
The part about Italians not knowing of Berlusconi sex scandal is simply laughable. Everyone knows it. And also the part about the fact that he have total control of the media. In reality there are plenty of newspapers (like Repubblica itself, or the most read in the country, the Corriere della Sera) that give the issue a lof of attention, and the same is true for the tv media.
The reason for which Italians don't care is very simple, no one give a thought about Berlusconi private life, with the economic crisis, the earthquarke, the many reforms we need there are plenty of important issue to think about, not this gossip nonsense. What he do at his home is his business. As a person that voted for the opposition i'm honestly more angry with them for losing time discussing Berlusconi behaviour instead of thinking of the real problems of people. This way their only paving the way for another Berlusconi victory.
And to those non Italian that comment on Italians electing him, no one in Italy care about foreign leaders, what they do is the business of their own country and citizen. What right have you, without knowledge of the Italian political system, of Italy's problems and situation, to judge?
And to those that are curios of why Berlusconi is voted in Italy, a quote from a previous British PM is perfect:
"Berlusconi is the worst of Italian politicians, except all the others."
Italy is sick since long time. The story starts at the end of last war. Americans came to help us get rid of Germans. They landed in Sicily after having made an alliance with Mafia. At that time they said: it is better to have Mafia than Comunism.
The communists self defeated, the Mafia is still here.
It does not help having the left political parties creating a new party almost every day.
How to solve the problem: declare war to USA, and surrender after 15 minutes saying: now it is your problem, please solve it!
dettoieri@gmail.com
But still lots of people, here, continue supporting him, and i can't understand why... this political and human behaviour is nothing but a demonstration of hypocrisiy and ignorance...
p.s. ehr... just sorry for my english.. i'm not sure of everything I wrote here.. I tried to be the most comprehensible I could.. :)
Clever italians want to get rid off Berlusconi, they care for their nation, but they are alone, they are a minority group, unfortunately most of italian people only cares about next night sex, sunday football match and less more.
if you listen to interview of PD in italy, they just talk about berlusconi as well, they've no idea no life. The opposition is only good to talk bad about berlusconi without offering nothing.
What about the escorts? they look to me just jealous. Berlusconi can pay a slut 10.000 euros (and to me it's very strange that a slut payed 10000 euros would register on tape wath berlusconi said to her). When prodi was at government, sirkana used to pay 50 euros for a transvestites hooked up on the street at terme di caracalla.
i personally prefer someone who go with a high level prostitute then a road transvestites
p.s. don't try to be so correct. lately some politician of many countries went to party with drug and whores. so what's new ??