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Peter Tatchell: A long slog to the promised land of equality – and love

My friend Robin Tyler likes to joke that there is no such thing as same-sex marriage, because after marriage sex is never the same. Witticisms aside, she and her long-time partner Diane Olson were the original plaintiffs who bought the successful legal action that overturned the ban on gay marriage in California last year.

Together with 18,000 other gay and lesbian couples, Robin and Diane took advantage of the new legal dispensation. They got married. What joy. It was, in Robin's words, "a simple, elegant, lesbian Jewish wedding," held at the Beverly Hills Courthouse, where they had previously applied for a marriage licence – and been rejected – every year since 2001.

For Robin and Diane, the legal battle over Proposition 8 is not about whether marriage is a good institution or not. The real issue for them is equality: the right of all US citizens to be equal under the law, regardless of sexual orientation. On a personal level, it is about public recognition and respect for the commitment they have made to each other.

The battle for same-sex marriage has involved years of litigation in dozens of states. It echoes the protracted legal battles by the black civil rights movement to quash the laws against inter-racial marriages. These laws were struck down by the California Supreme Court in 1948, but only finally outlawed in all states in 1967.

It was a long, hard slog by African-Americans to win legal equality, and so it is proving for lesbian and gay Americans too. Hopes and victories, followed by disappointments and setbacks.

But to paraphrase Dr Martin Luther King Jr, one day gay Americans will get to the promised land. They will secure same-sex marriage, legal protection against discrimination and an end to the restrictions on gay people serving in the US military. These victories will help make the US a kinder, more tolerant nation, to the benefit of all Americans. As Dr King often reminded us: "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."

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Hey Peter...
[info]ancientoneuk wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 01:07 am (UTC)
... you still advocating "man-boy" love, the lowering of the age of consent?

I have no idea really what the above is all about, only to say that I have read much and seen much of what Mr Tatchell wants to happen in our society which is at great variance with accepted morals in any society, western or otherwise and just wonder why the Independent even gives this person space when for years one of his key demands was the allowing of young males to be "loved" by older men and not call it abuse...

I have never had an issue with gay on either side, some of my late mother's best friends made Freddie Mercury look pretty butch but I do have issues with a man that openly calls for making children vulnerable, I wish the gay community luck in all their endeavours but surely they could have chosen a far far more suitable frontman.
The 'gay' organised population - organised and effective campaigners they are...
[info]cronyblatcher wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 09:22 am (UTC)
inexplicably reject a splendid opportunity to win friends and positively influence people, by not using their clout to support children's need for implementation of fraudulently ratified UNCRC. On a scale of strategic blunders it reminds of Griffin's failure to effectively exploit the present situation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnqCUvGhxUQ&NR=1
Escaped from Putin's Gulag, Tatchell?
[info]findempire wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 08:04 am (UTC)
I thought you and your 2 dozen friends had been sent off to break rocks in Siberia with Khodorkovsky after your attempt to rain on Russia's Eurovision parade. At least that's how you & your Russia-bashing Wurlitzer media pals made it sound. So what happened, did you dig a tunnel to Beverly Hills?
Findempire, why do you hate gays so much?
[info]nooraza wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 10:23 am (UTC)
Get a real life will you?! You sound pathetically homophobic, get over it! The Dark-age is gone forever, despite that primitive Islamists think otherwise!
Get a brain
[info]findempire wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 12:29 pm (UTC)
My post has nothing to do with Tatchell's sexual preference and everything to do with his being a Bear-baiting Yank shill. For the last time, stop embarrassing yourself and get it through your well-ventilated head you are intellectually underequipped for understanding anything I post or indeed any issue that you constantly spam us about. You live in the bubble of your own menopausal hysteria and nobody hears or cares about your sputtering rants.
Hey findempire woman/gay-basher, you don't seem to get what freedom of speech mean don't you?!
[info]nooraza wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 12:57 pm (UTC)
Such moronic, brainless mind of yours need to go through Enlightenment intensive course and a civilized feminist lesson in how to speak to women! Just can't stand human rights that include a woman/feminist (thus why you're labelling me sexist-ly as having "menopausal hysteria") or a gay speaking up don't you, where you've tried to silence me and Mr. Thatchell over & over again! What a liar you are; I've seen you bashing Thatchell before, and applauding his arrest in gay march in Moscow recently; what do you have against a human rights defender?! Get a real life and a real brain - a modern one, not a caveman mentality; this is the modern west, not Taleban/Islamist-land, where gays and women/girls are shut up with so much barbarian Islamist violence!
Re: Findempire, why do you hate gays so much?
[info]colinru wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 02:50 pm (UTC)
I think that you are incorrect. The post is not about hating same-sex relationships but about Tatchell and his grandstanding and I agree with findempire on that. One can be tolerant or accepting of Homosexuals/Lesbians but still find Tatchell objectionable. The man will, ultimately cause a backlash which will do the exact opposite of what he claims to want.
Findempire, Why the heck do you have a 'beheaded' statue of liberty as your vile symbol?
[info]nooraza wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 04:29 pm (UTC)
You're a sick man! That Statue of Liberty represents liberty for all, plus equality for women, not juts for Americans, but for all humanity! Why the heck would you hate such fundamental symbols and real struggle of UNIVERSAL human rights?!
The issue here
[info]chiennoir wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 08:22 am (UTC)
I am not an advocate of marriage - gay or otherwise - as I don't see what business it is of anyone else - esepcially 'society' - whether one person commits him or herself to another or not. On the other hand, Tatchel is right here. If you are to have equality, then gay people must be able to get married. I'd rather they did something better with their time, but that's not the issue.

ancientoneuk "what Mr Tatchell wants to happen in our society... is at great variance with accepted morals in any society," You obviously know very little about many Native-American societies and the Two-Spirits tradition they fostered. Find out more. 'Morals' are not set in stone.
Gay equality
[info]bevfor wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 08:31 am (UTC)
Thank you for equating gay rights other civil rights issues after all people are born gay (or bisexual), as people are born with a particular skin colour or with a disability. Religious groups that discriminate against gay people might as well be saying we don't like black people or disabled people etc and no one would accept that. Once we get past the whole 'gay as a lifestyle choice' crap we can move on to true equality.
Re: Gay equality
[info]colinru wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 02:55 pm (UTC)
Mr Tatchell seems to me to not be striving for equality (which is already here in all the important issues). His remarks on many occassions give me the impression that he will not accept tolerance or even acceptance but only the enforcement of the idea that a homosexual etc. life is normal and that anyone who does not agree is to be vilified.

This may not be what he wants but it is the impression that I come away with.
Re: Gay equality
[info]bevfor wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 05:26 pm (UTC)
Yes being gay is normal - like being left handed is normal - you would not make any judgement about left handed people so why judge gays?
Re: Gay equality
[info]colinru wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 05:48 pm (UTC)
Being gay is abnormal just as being left-handed is abnormal (and a lot of other things, as well). It is not meant to be a pejorative term.

Perhaps you would quote where I have made judgements about anyone (other than Peter Tatchell) on these posts today?
Re:Normality
[info]bevfor wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 07:51 pm (UTC)
It is normal for a minority of the population to be left handed.
Peter Thatchell - should be honoured as an Enlightenment Thinker!
[info]nooraza wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 10:27 am (UTC)
Actually, we are going through the next phase of the great Enlightenment! It's a continuous process that will come to an end only when this unequal and unjust world ends; thank Christ!
You have the right to chose not suffer opioionated abuse
[info]tuskerdeman wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 10:51 am (UTC)
You have the right to chose not suffer opinionated abuse. By virtue of your own actions no harm will come to you or others by your preferences, then stand you equal amongst us all.

Even now this smokescreen issue hides even more serious and devious practices within Westminster. Theses issues of public concern promoting furore, debate and distraction hides what is truly happening, by quietly invoking into law, further "legal" abuses to our personal private data whilst our backs are turned.

Big issue, very important, read here:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2009/may/24/jacqui-smith-dna-profile-database

Beyond financial charades, corporate abuses, ministers expenses and many other issues that have become public knowledge in recent times, "the people" are denied proper and open debate on our basic freedoms.

We must stop this.

The Executive Branch of Westminster must warrant the closest scrutiny and investigation on all of the events of recent times immediately.

Write to your MPs, form action groups, contact anyone that may assist in putting a stop to this crime against the people.
WHERE IS THIS???
[info]famulla wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 12:07 pm (UTC)
'Manhood sliced off by cop'
Oooh it may be good face to face at times but I think it is back to the hospitals at times
The cop dragged him unconscious into the garage, yanked his trousers down and committed what was described as ' an act of barbarity'.
The Gendarme appeared before a judge and was remanded in custody. He was said to be on suicide watch last night and faces 30 years behind bars.
His victim suffered what was described as ' irreparable damage'.
No I mean I agree to all I say .this story pooped in the net as was writing and trying to defend your doctor. The police come and the doctor has to look at the bottom not face to face here at least .shame is it not. It just doesn?t work at times I feel sad and bad but why do you say face to face?
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2447319/Manhood-sliced-off-by-cop.html
I thank you
Firozali A. Mulla
We're equal under the law anyway
[info]johnmbradford wrote:
Monday, 25 May 2009 at 07:03 pm (UTC)
The right of all US citizens to be equal under the law, regardless of sexual orientation? They are, so are we British, whether or not we permit same sex marriages. If they're not allowed, I as a man cannot marry another man, nor can Peter Tatchell. If they are allowed, Both Peter and I can marry another man.

Where's the discrimination in the first case? Answer - there isn't any!

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