EMO: Welcome to the Black Parade
It's the youth movement that has Middle England on the run. The 'Daily Mail' labels it sinister and accuses it of romanticising death. But as its adherents prepare to march on the 'Mail's' Kensington HQ in protest, is there really anything to be frightened of? Jonathan Brown reports
Friday, 23 May 2008
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My Chemical Romance's 'Black Parade' album was one of the most compelling releases of 2006
"A world that sends you reeling from decimated dreams/ Your misery and hate will kill us all/ So paint it black and take it back/ Let's shout it loud and clear/ defiant to the end we hear the call/ To carry on." (From: "Welcome to the Black Parade" by My Chemical Romance.)
Welcome to the Black Parade – a place, depending on which side of the age/outrage divide you are standing on, is either a shadowy Shangri La for young suicide victims to pass the rest of eternity with fellow outcast kids who dig the same music, or, more prosaically, merely the infectious title track of one of the more engaging rock albums of the past few years.
Concern in Middle England has been mounting in recent days over the threat to the nation's youth posed by emo, a not-so-new fangled musical fashion that has spawned a loyal and growing tribe of followers, one instantly recognisable to even the most casual of observers for its shared attachment to skinny jeans, long black fringes and apparently permanently downcast expressions.
According to the Daily Mail, emo is a "sinister teenage craze that romanticises death", with bands such as My Chemical Romance (MCR), the New Jersey, Grammy-nominated five-piece whose Black Parade album was one of the most compelling releases of 2006, providing the musical soundtrack to what it sees as the worryingly depressing lifestyles of the nation's current crop of youngsters.
A Kent coroner's comments over the suicide of 13-year-old Hannah Bond, in which he expressed concern over the dead girl's passion for emo music, spawned a glut of lurid headlines earlier this month. But it was the Daily Mail that decided to delve deeper into the craze – prompting one of the unlikeliest protests London has seen for some time.
Next Saturday, fans of MCR will descend on the Mail's Kensington headquarters in west London to vent their rage at what they claim is "badly researched journalism in danger of promoting irresponsible stereotyping". It is a remarkably polite and measured response for a group supposedly in thrall to a mind-bending cult.
Click below to listen to My Chemical Romance's 'Teenagers'
According to one of the organisers, Anni Smith, 16, from Hampshire, festering anger that has been simmering below the surface for some time has finally spilt over. Some 300 people have already logged on to the protest site, www.whatthefrank.co.uk, expressing their desire to take part.
She believes the numbers determined to march eventually on the Mail HQ could be much higher and today organisers will meet representatives of the Metropolitan Police to discuss tactics for the demonstration and a possible transfer to nearby Hyde Park to avoid any trouble. Ms Smith, who has seen MCR four times, said that far from being advocates of mass suicide, the band are passionate opponents of self harm – as evidenced in the lyrics to their most famous song with its defiant message "to carry on". "I love their passion and the way they believe in what they do," she said. "They are amazing people. They want everyone to be OK, healthy and happy. A lot of people are affected by depression and a lot of MCR fans are too. This article was careless and badly researched journalism which really surprised us. They are the complete opposite of a suicide cult.
"The band has always been adamant that if you have problems you should get help and not give in."
The backlash has been growing apace. Internet chatrooms are clogged with comments from fans furious at what they say is breathtaking ignorance being displayed from across the generation divide by a people happier crooning along to Jim Morrison's "Soft Parade" than the later, darker assembly.
"Society constantly looks for something to point a finger at when things don't go right," wrote one fan to the NME this week. "It's time to face facts that being a young person today is tough."
According to Conor McNicholas, the magazine's editor, the furore has generated the NME's biggest postbag this year. "The reaction of the right-wing press is fairly moronic, knee-jerk stuff," he said. "Genuine music fans who know the way these things work are not afraid of speaking out and saying this is wrong.
"They sell papers on the basis of fear and the more frightened parents are the more sales there are for the Daily Mail. They are setting parents against their children which might sell papers but is incredibly destructive of family relations in the long term. If you want to alienate young people the best way to make them feel disaffected is to take away the music and culture they love."
Emo can trace its origins to the live music scene of Washington DC in the mid-1980s. The term referred to the emotional performance of artists such as Fire Party and Thursday, though the thrashy, hardcore sound would be largely unrecognisable to modern-day disciples who seek out a poppier, more mainstream style – from bands such as Wheezer and Jimmy Eat World to American Idiot-era Green Day and Fall Out Boy.
My Chemical Romance, according to the band's folklore, was formed in the grim, soul-searching weeks following 11 September 2001. So haunted was the front man, Gerard Way, by the image of the planes smashing into the Twin Towers that he wrote "Skylines and Turnstiles".
Today's generation of emo fans are a gentle bunch – evidence next week's demonstration where organisers are going to extraordinary pains to minimise the chance of young people falling foul of the law. Protesters are reminded to bring money and food, plus "anything else you may need for the day", but warned against packing signs that are on a wooden stick. Instead they are being asked to hang slogans around their necks saying "MCR Save Lives" and "I am Not Afraid to Keep On Living". Nowadays emos fashion their angst based on the writings of bedroom miserabilists such as Morrisey: it is all about the twisted emotions of adolescence. Critics say emo followers are predominately female, middle class, self-obsessed, internet-obsessed and in the thrall of a plethora of pretty boy bands. Dangerous they are not. In fact being an emo is a pursuit increasingly fraught with danger. Earlier this year emo fans were attacked in North America and in Mexico where commentators accused the males of flouting macho Mexican culture. Internet blogs and callers to music TV shows urged anti-emos to "take back" public spaces from groups of long-haired, skateboarding fans while others, more insanely, whipped up direct emo-bashing hysteria.
Sophie Brown, 14, an emo fan from Llandybie in Wales, was among the first to begin fighting back. Suicide is a sensitive issue in the principality in the wake of the media coverage of an apparent spate of deaths among young people in the Bridgend area of South Wales. Newspapers talked about a cult and police and charities begged the media to tone down the coverage for fear that it might lead to more suicides. Sophie says it is much too easy to scapegoat the music. "People make their own choices and would not simply do something of that magnitude because a song told them to. Suicide is a serious decision. It may even be an insult to victims to say their death was due to the music they listen to," she said.
She says she has friends who have self-harmed. "But those are the ones who have had bad family lives," she added.
Her mother, Diane, a 44-year-old Daily Mail-reading housewife, agrees and has even taken her daughter to an MCR concert. "My husband and I are big fans but we are not emos. We went to the concert and from our view it was wonderful. People were hugging – it was lovely. In my day we were told not to listen to Judas Priest because of the devil but it never did us any harm."
But Paul Kelly, whose son killed himself and who is a trustee of the charity Papyrus, which campaigns against youth suicide, still thinks parents should be aware if young people develop an unhealthy interest in death and begin to appear depressed. "There is some evidence to suggest that people have taken their own lives after being becoming connected with such interests. But we do know that suicide is a very complicated thing. There are a multiplicity of factors at play and it is difficult to blame one particular factor."
Some 1,800 young people aged under 35 take their lives each year. But Mr Kelly says talk of suicide cults is unhelpful though internet sites which provide technical details on how to take one's own life should be banned. He is also concerned about sites such as Mydeathspace which commemorate suicide victims.
"Pictures of young, attractive people and eulogies to them runs the danger of glorifying suicide. You see these people getting worldwide attention and you might think, 'why don't I go out in a blaze of glory?'" he said. "It is difficult with young people because they want to go their own way but the worst thing you can do is tell them stop doing it – it has the opposite effect."
Anyone worried that a young person they know is feeling suicidal should ring Papyrus's Hopeline UK: 08000 684141

Comments
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I am a mcr fan and agree that mcr is the exact opposite of a suiside causing band. I am enraged at the comments saying so. I myself consider me as an "emo",but not because "mcr told me"-it's my life choice.I dont wish to kill myself or anything like that,but this hannah bond did it for her own reasons- no one nor style of music can make another kill themselves!
Posted by gerard way | 29.05.08, 22:58 GMT
I am a mcr fan and agree that mcr is the exact opposite of a suiside causing band. I am enraged at the comments saying so. I myself consider me as an "emo",but not because "mcr told me"-it's my life choice.I dont wish to kill myself or anything like that,but this hannah bond did it for her own reasons- no one nor style of music can make another kill themselves!
Posted by gerard way | 29.05.08, 22:58 GMT
Hang on, MCR - whose frontman whines about how gruelling tours are and says the only way to cope is to take vitamin C tablets -are "darker" than Jim Morrison: drug fiend, frontman arrested for public indeceny at his own gig, wrote the lyric "Mother, I want to f*** you"? Hilariously badly informed! And "Wheezer" an emo band? Do you mean Weezer? Who are nothing even close to emo?
Posted by Rich | 28.05.08, 16:45 GMT
Thank you.
The Independent has my full respect for doing their homework as far back to the 1980's when emo first had it's roots. Not many tabloids/newspapers/webzines even care about going back that far.
Just, thank you.
You've no idea how many people are incredibly thankful for the truth being spoken about the social culture in which they define themselves.
Modern stereotyping has gone to unbelievable levels, and emo is one of the worst.
The Independent has taken the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth about emo. It's not the culture that's causing the suicides, it's the stereotype.
Thanks again.
Posted by Becky - An MCRmy member from the US | 28.05.08, 06:03 GMT
ALSO
THERE IS SO MUCH GOING AROUND ABOUT KIDS PARTICIPATING IN A MASS SUICIDE AT
THE MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE PROTEST IN LONDON.
HELLO. THE PROTEST IS AGAINST SELF HARM!
IF YOU HURT OR KILL YOURSELF WHILE YOURE THERE, OR IN GENERAL
YOU ARE DEFEATING THE PURPOSE!
MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE WOULD BE MIGHTY P*SSED IF THEY KNEW THIS.
DO NOT F*CKING DO IT, PLEASE!
SELF HARM IS NOT COOL.
SUICIDE IS NOT COOL.
IF YOU DO THIS, NOT ONLY WILL IT BE A HUGE MISTAKE, BUT IT WILL GIVE
THE DAILY F*CKING MAIL ANOTHER EXCUSE TO BLAME MCR FOR SUICIDE.
DO NOT DO IT.
I REPEAT DO NOT DO IT.
IF YOU KNOW ANYTHING, EVEN THE SLIGHTEST BIT ABOUT MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE
THAN YOU KNOW THEY WOULD NOT SUPPORT THIS.
Thank you, sorry for some of my not-so-appropriate language
but this is ridiculous.
-Autumn Angel. <3
Posted by Autumn Angel. <3 and mcr fan for as long as theyve been here! | 28.05.08, 01:23 GMT
MCR saved my life. These kids, that have just dscovered MCR and claim MCR has made them suicidal, wheras I have listened to them since theyve been a band, and they keep me alive.
My chemical romance has also helped me two sisters. In fact,
one of my sisters has 'I am not afraid to keep on living, I am
Not Afraid to walk this world alone, Awake and Unafraid' Tattooed
on her arm because just looking at it when shes flustered helps her, and
the words are quite meaningful.
Our ages range 12, 17, and 21. Ive been listening to My Chemical Romance
Since I was 6, because of my two other sisters.
They have kept me in a positive attitude and they inspire me in
so many ways.
My Chemical Romance was started to save lives, not to break them
or be trashed by narrow minded parents that dont take a second to listen
to the lyrics, the band's quotes or pay attention to their kids.
MCR has helped kids, teens, adults, parents, all kinds of people over the years
and for people to be stereotypical and insulting does not seem like a fair
thing.
So GET A LIFE if you have nothing better to do than to blame today's
HEROs on mistakes no one else can find conclusions for.
MCR = not emo :]
Posted by Autumn Angel. <3 MCR fan for as long as theyve been here. | 28.05.08, 00:59 GMT
To motherofanemochild: If you think "get jiggy with it" is a term that children use today then you are obviously more than a little out of touch. To say "Teenagers will never be able to win one of these battles because their dendencies to be obnoxious, ignorant, and spontaneous" is incredibly disrespectful towards young people and I suggest you go home and spend some time getting to know your daughter rather than attacking the things she likes and her whole generation!
I also hope that you have read more than just the Daily Mail articles on "emo" as they are badly researched, mostly opinion and very little fact. I don't understand how you can claim to be "open minded" and yet have such a narrow minded view of My Chemical Romance and their fans.
In general, I'm pleased that this article has shown the situation in a different light. The media is thankfully being part of the antidote to The Daily Mail's slanderous reporting. As a 21yr old MCR fan I will be at the march on Saturday.
Posted by Justine | 27.05.08, 20:13 GMT
EMO/SCENE DOESNT MEAN WE kILL OURSELVES
STOP MAKING OUR MUSIC A SCAPEGOAT
i am a scene kid, a grown up version of emo.
the music helps me,
the screaming vocals with hating lyrics, helps me let go of all the anger that ignorant adults cause me.
Posted by sophi | 27.05.08, 20:06 GMT
retards get a real job and learn some basic skills i lke to call not being a nonce
i like mcr im not dead so like i said learn about a band before you critisize them and creat some sort of crappy cult .. they are people agaist suicide and all your dong here is bad publicity wt will make the band split then there will be more chance of suicide because this band has saved more lives than this stupid bulls*** news paper so get a life and instead of printin absolute S***
You want something to complain about why not complain about the thousands of bands unlike mcr whos folowers are getting pissed on street corners at the age of about 13 usually and bands who sing about taking drugs and prostitution and also all the tarts in thier vidios
Posted by Jaide n Nuala | 27.05.08, 19:58 GMT
Im a huge fan of MCR , They saved my life along with so many MCR fans aswell. And a message to The Daily Mail and The Independant, Please learn what the internet is for, Its for reserch! Reserch before writing absolute rubbish. And also, Can the independant stop writing stuff that can be read by a 7 year old?
Posted by Aimee | 27.05.08, 19:29 GMT
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