Miley Cyrus: 'I didn't understand my own gender and my own sexuality'

The actress explains her mum had since apologised for not being immediately understanding about her sexuality

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Miley Cyrus has spoken forthrightly about the struggle to come to terms with her sexuality and revealed she eschewed gender labels from a young age.

The 23-year-old said she became more aware of her sexual orientation between the age of 10 and 12 - just before she started filming Hannah Montana - and revealed her first relationship was with a woman.

The former Disney star described the moment she realised she was pansexual and the realisation did not fit into one specific gender, explaining she had always felt equally aligned with both genders. 

Pansexual is defined as not being limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender or gender identity.

Cyrus said she had felt involved in the LGBTQ community for the entirety of her life, telling Variety magazine: “I didn’t understand my own gender and my own sexuality.” 

“I always hated the word ‘bisexual’ because that’s even putting me in a box,” she continued. “I don’t ever think about someone being a boy or someone being a girl. Also, my nipple pasties and shit never felt sexualised to me. My eyes started opening in the fifth or sixth grade. My first relationship in my life was with a chick.”

Cyrus explained she first figured out she was pansexual when she realised what it meant.

“I went to the LGBTQ centre here in LA,” she recalled. “And I started hearing these stories. I saw one human in particular who didn't identify as male or female. Looking at them, they were both: beautiful and sexy and tough but vulnerable and feminine but masculine. And I related to that person more than I related to anyone in my life.”

“Even though I may seem very different, people may not see me as neutral as I feel. But I feel very neutral,” Cyrus continued. “I think that was the first gender-neutral person I'd ever met. Once I understood my gender more, which was unassigned, then I understood my sexuality more. I was like, 'Oh - that's why I don't feel straight and I don't feel gay. It's because I'm not.’”

The Voice coach also spoke of growing up in a deeply religious family in the deep South in Franklin, Tennessee, saying that despite the fact her parents didn’t understand her sexuality straight away, she knew they would learn to.

Cyrus explained that her mum had since apologised for not being more immediately understanding about her sexuality. “On The Voice this young girl started crying when she left, because I’m the reason she came out. My mom started crying. She was like, “I’m so sorry about the way I was when you were that age and coming out.” She never understood me until she saw that girl who couldn’t be herself. It was very cool.”

Cyrus first came out as pansexual just over a year ago, expressing the fluid nature of her sexuality.

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