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How I Met Your Mother actor Neil Patrick Harris has revealed that it was a friendly kiss from Burt Reynolds that cemented the realisation that he was gay.
Harris, 41, is also a singer and director and shot to fame as a pre-teen. He can most recently be seen alongside Ben Affleck in new release Gone Girl (2014).
In his brand new memoir, Choose Your Own Autobiography , Harris, who is now a married father-of-two with David Burtka, describes the journey of acceptance for both him and his loved ones.
As reported by the Daily Mail , the book grapples with the years Harris spent coming to terms with his sexuality, during which he told people he was bisexual before revealing his is gay.
“After a long internal journey, you now embrace being gay, recognising it as a wonderful and integrally important component part of the totality that is you,” he writes.
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came out in an inspirational speech at the Human Rights Campaign’s youth conference, Time to Thrive, on 14 February this year. She spoke about her fear of coming out publicly and the effect that had on her. She said, to the crowd cheering her: 'My spirit suffered, my mental health suffered and my relationships suffered. And I’m standing here today, with all of the other side of all that pain.' Page said she hoped she could make a difference to others.
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The most important recent coming outs Vicky Beeching Vicky Beeching, a British Christian rock singer popular in America’s Bible Belt,
came out in an interview with The Independent , risking her career. In her interview Beeching talked about her anguish as a teenager as her feelings went against church teachings. Beeching now says she wants to be an advocate for gay rights within the church and came to blows with homophobic US Pastor, Scott Lively. She said to him on Channel 4 News: “I’m taking this step today so young people don’t have to listen to the kind of teaching you peddle, because it damages people.”
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The most important recent coming outs Tom Daley The 20-year-old Olympic diving champion
came out in an emotional YouTube video in December 2013, saying he was 'dating a guy' and in April this year said on ITV’s Celebrity Juice 'I am a gay man now.' This week Daley encouraged gay footballers to come out: 'I think people would be surprised how supported they'd be if they were to come out in a football environment,' he said at the Leaders in Sport conference in London.
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Thomas Hitzsperger, became the highest profile footballer to be openly gay in January this year – he told the German newspaper, Die Zeit: 'It's been a long and difficult process… only in the last few years have I realised that I preferred living with a man.' The 31-year-old retired from the game in 2013 because of injuries. He said that he had thought about coming out earlier while he was still playing for Wolfsburg, but was warned against it. Afterwards he said 'there was not precedent, so people could only speculate on what would happen.'
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The most important recent coming outs Sam Smith The singer and rising star of 2014
came out officially in May this year when he said his album was about unrequited love for a man. Speaking to the Fader he said: 'In the Lonely Hour is about a guy that I fell in love with last year and he didn’t love me back. I think I’m over it now, but I was in a very dark place. I kept feeling lonely in the fact that I hadn’t felt love before.'
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The most important recent coming outs Charlie King The 29-year-old former The Only Way is Essex star Charlie King said he was gay in an interview with This Morning, only this month. In the interview he said he wanted to be honest about his sexuality to help other people in the same situation feel more comfortable about it.
The most important recent coming outs Michael Sam The 24-year-old was virtually unknown at the start of 2014 but came out in February and went on to
become the first openly gay NFL player in the history of American football , hitting the headlines all over the world. He was picked up and then dropped in August by the St Louis Rams, and then became part of the Dallas Cowboys practice squad. He said in the New York Times: 'I’m Michael Sam, I’m a football player and I’m gay.'
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The most important recent coming outs Hodor! The actor, Kristian Nairn, famed for his portrayal of the gentle giant
Hodor on Game of Thrones came out in March this year . He told the Wall Street Journal he didn’t fit the stereotype of what a gay man is supposed to look like: 'You have to be thin, you have to be tanned… that’s never been be me.' He said he 'wanted to show the world that we are varied people, as everyone else, you don’t have to be any way.'
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The most important recent coming outs Ian Thorpe Australia’s swimming champion Ian Thorpe denied being gay for years and did not feel comfortable coming out until July this year
in an interview with Michael Parkinson . Thorpe is a five-time Olympic gold medallist and has recently retired from the sport, in his 2012 autobiography he said he was straight, and in July he said that being gay was something he was only just telling people: 'This is only something that very recently, we're talking the past two weeks, I've been comfortable telling the closest people around me.'
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However, it was while acting beside Burt Reynolds in late 1980s detective drama B.L. Stryker that proved to be revelatory.
In his book he writes: “As a joke at the end of one take, Burt leans over and kisses you square on the mouth.
“The crew thinks this is very funny, but it makes you uncomfortable. Uncomfortable and, it will ultimately turn out, gay. Burt Reynolds' kiss makes you gay.”
Harris came out in 2006, confirming in a statement: “I am happy to dispel any rumours or misconceptions and am quite proud to say that I am a very content gay man living my life to the fullest and feel most fortunate to be working with wonderful people in the business I love.”
He married his partner Burtka, whom he met in 2003, on 8 September 2014. The two became parents to twins Gideon and Harper in 2010.
In September, he was one of a number of people featured in an article entitled 'gay list of shame' by Arabic website Middle Eastern Broadcasting Center (MBC), for which it came under fire and was forced to apologise.
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