HOW TO SURVIVE THE 21ST CENTURY

The second episode of our three-part guide to the future considers our prospects at a more human level. What will happen to the family, now that fewer and fewer people aspire to traditional ideals of monogamy? What sort of education will our children ne...

Polly Toynbee
Saturday 01 April 1995 23:02 BST
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n Face up to the prevalence - and thus the probability - of divorce and separation; and learn to separate elegantly, without fighting.

n For the same reason, be careful what you teach young children about family life. Don't encourage them to think that mummy and daddy will always be together.

n If you are a woman, abandon the idea that you can always have a man to lean on. It is highly likely that you will be your family's sole breadwinner at some point; train yourself so that you can earn a breadwinner's wages.

n If you are a man, become a New Man, or women will spurn you. (And remember: equal work means equal, not token.)

n Campaign and lobby for employers to give women equal pay, and for the government to finance child-care.

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