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Charlie Sheen says Matthew Perry ‘used humor as a deflector-shield’

The ‘Hot Shots’ actor recalls spending time with the late ‘Friends’ star in his new memoir ‘The Book of Sheen’

Kevin E G Perry
in Los Angeles
Tuesday 09 September 2025 08:50 BST
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Charlie Sheen has reflected on the time he spent with Matthew Perry at an addiction group the late Friends star hosted.

Perry was found dead in a hot tub at his home on October 28, 2023. A medical examiner later ruled that ketamine was the primary cause of death.

In his new memoir, The Book of Sheen, the Platoon actor details his own struggles with drug addiction and writes: “It was during the writer’s strike of ‘07 that I had the pleasure of hanging out with Matthew Perry a few times. He hosted a private men’s group at his condo, and through our mutual connection, the invite was extended. (He spoke publicly of said group when he was still with us, so I’m not violating any code.)”

Sheen continues: “Matt and I shared a deeper truth we saw in each other—we were both, as Bobby Dee Jay used to say, ‘veterans of the unspeakable.’ (Those who’ve been through it recognise fellow graduates at a glance.)

“I was fascinated by Matt’s ability to turn every frown upside down. I’ve never met anyone who more masterfully used humor as a deflector-shield to keep you just enough over there. I dug every minute we spent together—and over there with Matthew was much better than most people’s front and center.

Sheen also recalled that it was at a party with Perry that he first met his third wife, Brooke Mueller.

Charlie Sheen and Matthew Perry
Charlie Sheen and Matthew Perry (Getty)

At the premiere of his new Netflix documentary, aka Charlie Sheen, Sheen expressed his desire to make amends with his estranged former co-star Jon Cryer.

From 2003 to 2011, the pair co-led Two and a Half Men, helping to make it one of the most popular sitcoms in the world.

However, Sheen was infamously fired after exhibiting erratic behaviour and making disparaging remarks about the show’s creator, Chuck Lorre.

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His meteoric rise and fall is explored in the forthcoming Netflix documentary, aka Charlie Sheen, which Cryer participates in.

“The only person I didn’t call personally to participate in the doc was Jon,” Sheen told People. The two-part series also includes Sheen’s ex-wives Denise Richards and Mueller, his longtime friend Sean Penn, several family members, as well as Cryer and Lorre.

“And the only reason I didn’t call him was because I didn’t have the right number for him, so the director reached out to him. But when I saw everything that Jon spoke about, so honestly and very compassionately, I wrote to him and I said, ‘Hey, thank you for your contributions, and I’m sorry we didn't connect personally. I hope to see you around the campus.’”

Sheen said he hasn’t heard back from Cryer, but believes it’s because he doesn’t have the actor’s latest contact information.

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