Virginia Ironside: Next week's dilemma

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Dear Virginia,

I have a two young children and I've just been offered a good job in Canada, as a doctor. My wife is very against going because she has her family and friends here who she loves and also depends on to help with the kids. But I feel Canada is a better place to raise a family than England and my job would be far more fulfilling and interesting. The kids will get a better education, there'll be wide open spaces and so on. Do you or your readers have any views?

Yours sincerely, Adrian

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