Train driver couple throw London Underground-themed wedding in tribute to bride’s late dad
Melissa and Phil Clarke from Basildon, Essex, met at work when she was a train dispatcher and he was a train driver
A train driver couple from Essex have tied the knot with a tube-themed wedding party – complete with Oyster card drink tokens and a service information welcome board – to celebrate how they met and pay tribute to the bride’s late father, who worked on the underground for 40 years.
Melissa and Phil Clarke, aged 31 and 49 respectively, from Basildon, met at work in 2016 when Melissa worked on the platform and Phil was a train driver, and since having their first date at a Harvester, the train enthusiasts have had two children together – Mia, five, and Max, four.
The pair’s wedding was initially booked for September 2020 but, after two postponements due to the coronavirus pandemic, Melissa’s father, Stephen Quick, died in November 2021 before he could watch his daughter walk down the aisle.
They were finally married in a small ceremony on July 4 2022, before their bespoke Tube-themed wedding party with 100 guests in October – complete with an iced wedding cake topped with models of the couple wearing their orange high-vis jackets and train tracks around the edge.
The colour scheme for the entire wedding matched the jackets, including the flowers and even the groom’s suit and tie, and the party also featured drink tokens made to look like Oyster cards, a service information board as their welcome sign, and biscuits that resembled the London Underground symbol.
“My dad would have loved the Tube theme because it was his whole life,” Melissa said. “He literally worked in the underground from when he was 16 to when he was retired.”
Melissa became a qualified mainline train driver in April 2022, having worked on the railway for eight years in various roles, from a ticket officer to a platform worker.
Originally from Romford, now living in Essex, she met her husband Phil, 49, a train driver for a freight company, when she was working on the platforms as a train dispatcher in 2016.
After confessing her feelings to Phil, the pair started dating and had their first date at a Harvester in Essex in July 2016. After dating for two years and having two children together Phil proposed in October 2018.
The train-driving couple were meant to get married in September 2020 but it was postponed twice due to the pandemic. Their big day took place two years later, on July 4 2022, with just a few close friends and family at Bromley Registry Office.
Sadly, all of the postponing meant that Melissa’s dad could not see her walk down the aisle as he passed away in November 2021, aged 60, from complications with his diabetes.
In October 2022, they threw a Tube-themed wedding party in Ingrebourne Links Golf and Country Club in Rainham with all the decorations, besides the cake and large welcome sign, made by Melissa.
She said: “My dad worked on the underground for 40 years and it was kind of a tribute to him.
“I know I wanted to do something different, and I think that because Phil and I both like trains, we’re both train drivers, it was just very apt for us and showed off our personality more than just doing what everyone else does.”