Scoring

1. a = 1......... b = 1......... c = 0......... d = 5

2. a = 5......... b = 2......... c = 0......... d = 5

3. a = 1......... b = 0......... c = 4......... d = 5

4. a = 0......... b = 0......... c = 5......... d = 1

5. a = 3......... b = 4......... c = 2......... d = 5

10 – 20 Not quite up to speed with the programme. However, second times are often miles better so don't take away a message of despair. There is no set of sexual rules about duration, position, sequence, fantasy or friction.

21 – 30 You don't rely on your attractions, but wait until your partner appears equally keen – then you let rip.

31 – 40 You are a consummation expert and anyone should feel proud to appear in your all-time hall of fame.

Phillip Hodson is a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy – www.bacp.co.uk