Australia's top male and female escorts reveal insider secrets

Sex doesn't always happen

Jake Ryan (jake-ryan.com)

Australia’s top male and female escorts have spoken out about what they really do with their clients, how many people they’ve slept with and what the majority of people really want in the bedroom.

28-year-old Jake Ryan became an escort about two years ago and has now had sex with around 1,700 clients. He’s Australia’s leading male escort but never shows his face in adverts.

“Some clients want it rough, some women want sex sensual,” Ryan told news.com.au.

“But the biggest feedback I get is that they can generally tell I want to please them and that I want to make their whole experience just as good as mine.

“Women aren’t selfish in the bedroom, but they often find males can be. So it’s about them.”

Ryan says the main difference between how men and women use escorts is that the latter tend to want to spend time with them before heading to the bedroom.

Jake Ryan

“Often female workers get clients just wanting sex at that moment, while with women they are usually wanting to book far in advance and connect before stepping into the bedroom.

“This might be for a drink or cooking dinner before leading into anything personal. It makes them feel much more relaxed.

“I find out what they like in the bedroom, meaning I might have to prepare certain things. So for a boyfriend experience, a lot goes on behind the scenes.”

Jake Ryan

He admits that he has a high sex drive though.

But one of Australia’s top female escorts, 35-year-old Madison Missina, says she doesn’t always have sex with clients, and that “if it happens it happens.”

“Men want to feel significant and special,” she said. “My average booking will be 14-15 hours long, with sex only happening about three times in that time frame.”

Whilst Missina does receive requests for “quickies”, she tends to pass them on to women who are less advanced in their careers.

“Surprisingly, while the pornstar experience is hardcore, it’s the girlfriend experience that’s much more advanced in the sex industry because you put walls up and you put on a fake persona for the client,” she explains.

Missina is a lesbian so is never attracted to her clients, but she says she finds something beautiful in every man she works with.

She says her sexuality has helped her in her career though, “because not having a sexual attraction means I don’t have sexual repulsion.”

A “girlfriend experience” with Missina costs $1,000 (£570) an hour, and a longer booking with a single client costs about $5,000 (£2,850).

Despite the costs, 80 per cent of her clients are regulars, many of whom see her for eight years or so.

“When you’re with someone for that long, they look like real relationships,” she says. “You cook for them, we can text, and I even shop for them.

“For the ones who are married, I make sure that whatever they spend on me — they need to invest that back into their relationship.”