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Is this parental pride – or are my children actually talented?

We’ve all laughed at parents convinced their sons and daughters are possessed by a talent they don’t actuallly have... but is it ever possible to stay objective about one’s offspring, asks Will Gore

Sunday 11 February 2024 06:00 GMT
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Doesn’t every mother or father run the risk of mistaking unconditional love for their child with a totally misguided belief in their offspring’s genius?
Doesn’t every mother or father run the risk of mistaking unconditional love for their child with a totally misguided belief in their offspring’s genius? (Getty Images)

Parental pride can be a dangerous thing.

We all remember those episodes of The X Factor, Britain’s Got Talent and the like, when Ellie from Lincolnshire arrives with her doting mum and dad, convinced this will be the beginning of a remarkable career.

“She’s been singing since she was three,” confides mum, apparently unaware that all toddlers warble along to the CBeebies bedtime song.

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