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<p>‘The close proximity of Christmas to birthday seemed to somehow make both feel less generous. Having two brothers didn’t help. I was once given a left-handed glove for Christmas and the right-hand one for my birthday’</p>
Anne Atkins

Winter is the best time to have a birthday. Romance is for the spring

I hated my new year birthday for 40 years, says Anne Atkins. It took age, family and a few surprises to show me why midwinter celebrations might be the best of all

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