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<p>Erica Lefevre, aged seven, on the last family holiday before her father left</p>

I blocked my dying father from my life – I still feel guilty today

Grieving an estranged parent is complicated: you mourn not only their death, but the loss of the chance for things to be different, says Erica Lefevre, 49, who decided to cut her father out of her life

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<p>While open cup milkshakes and coffee drinks are exempt from the government’s latest sugar tax, their calorific content can still be a problem</p>

How embarrassing is your coffee order?

As prepackaged milkshakes and lattes get hit with a new sugar tax, Lydia Spencer-Elliott rethinks her daily calorific latte habit and asks is it time to wake up and smell the (actual) coffee?

How embarrassing is your coffee order?

As prepackaged milkshakes and lattes get hit with a new sugar tax, Lydia Spencer-Elliott rethinks her daily calorific latte habit and asks is it time to wake up and smell the (actual) coffee?

<p>While open cup milkshakes and coffee drinks are exempt from the government’s latest sugar tax, their calorific content can still be a problem</p>

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